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One Sperm Donor, 150 brothers and sisters

moshquerade

No Lifer
amazing 😱
Seems there should be a limit on this.

One Sperm Donor, 150 Offspring


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OFFSPRING Ryan Kramer, 20, of Pasadena, Calif., is the child of a donor.







Cynthia Daily and her partner used a sperm donor to conceive a baby seven years ago, and they hoped that one day their son would get to know some of his half siblings — an extended family of sorts for modern times.

So Ms. Daily searched a Web-based registry for other children fathered by the same donor and helped to create an online group to track them. Over the years, she watched the number of children in her son’s group grow.

And grow.

Today there are 150 children, all conceived with sperm from one donor, in this group of half siblings, and more are on the way. “It’s wild when we see them all together — they all look alike,” said Ms. Daily, 48, a social worker in the Washington area who sometimes vacations with other families in her son’s group.

As more women choose to have babies on their own, and the number of children born through artificial insemination increases, outsize groups of donor siblings are starting to appear. While Ms. Daily’s group is among the largest, many others comprising 50 or more half siblings are cropping up on Web sites and in chat groups, where sperm donors are tagged with unique identifying numbers.

Now, there is growing concern among parents, donors and medical experts about potential negative consequences of having so many children fathered by the same donors, including the possibility that genes for rare diseases could be spread more widely through the population. Some experts are even calling attention to the increased odds of accidental incest between half sisters and half brothers, who often live close to one another.

“My daughter knows her donor’s number for this very reason,” said the mother of a teenager conceived via sperm donation in California who asked that her name be withheld to protect her daughter’s privacy. “She’s been in school with numerous kids who were born through donors. She’s had crushes on boys who are donor children. It’s become part of sex education” for her.

Critics say that fertility clinics and sperm banks are earning huge profits by allowing too many children to be conceived with sperm from popular donors, and that families should be given more information on the health of donors and the children conceived with their sperm. They are also calling for legal limits on the number of children conceived using the same donor’s sperm and a re-examination of the anonymity that cloaks many donors

“We have more rules that go into place when you buy a used car than when you buy sperm,” said Debora L. Spar, president of Barnard College and author of “The Baby Business: How Money, Science and Politics Drive the Commerce of Conception.” “It’s very clear that the dealer can’t sell you a lemon, and there’s information about the history of the car. There are no such rules in the fertility industry right now.”

Although other countries, including Britain, France and Sweden, limit how many children a sperm donor can father, there is no such limit in the United States. There are only guidelines issued by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine, a professional group that recommends restricting conceptions by individual donors to 25 births per population of 800,000
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http://www.nytimes.com/2011/09/06/health/06donor.html?_r=1&smid=tw-nytimes&seid=auto
 
I am confused on why the person wanted to find these people, the "half siblings", to start with.

On a side note, I wonder who is making the big bucks donating all these samples. 😛
 
I am confused on why the person wanted to find these people, the "half siblings", to start with.

On a side note, I wonder who is making the big bucks donating all these samples. 😛
well, they feel a kinship for one thing, and also, they'd rather know they were related so they don't hook up. 😱
 
So...eventually if this continues everyone will be blood-related again (well, closer than we are now).

Great.
 
well, they feel a kinship for one thing, and also, they'd rather know they were related so they don't hook up. 😱

How does one feel kinship if you don't even know the person before finding about this is my problem.

It's one thing to grow up or visit family but another thing to look up and find the same sperm babies and say you feel like family when they are strangers.

There is no kinship here.

The woman should be visiting family of hers as more then likely she has brothers / sisters with kids or at the least cousins with them or some kind of family or friends and not be looking for some made up family for this.
 
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I've heard that you can place a limit on the number of babies made with your sperm.

If I was the guy with 150 babies made with my sperm, I would move to Africa or somewhere far away 😱
 
How does one feel kinship if you don't even know the person before finding about this is my problem.

It's one thing to grow up or visit family but another thing to look up and find the same sperm babies and say you feel like family when they are strangers.

There is no kinship here.

The woman should be visiting family of hers as more then likely she has brothers / sisters with kids or at the least cousins with them or some kind of family or friends and not be looking for some made up family for this.
Sure there is kinship. They find these people and realize they share a father in the sense that he's their common father sperm donor. They look alike. They maintain contact each other. They go on vacations together. You should read the article. They are indeed, half brother, half sisters, and that's kin.
 
Critics say that fertility clinics and sperm banks are earning huge profits by allowing too many children to be conceived with sperm from popular donors

What kind of bullshit accusation is that? How much money could they possibly be saving? I have to imagine the whole process of artificial insemination weighs far more on the bottom line than paying a guy to blow his load in a plastic cup. Guys do that shit for free every day.
 
Sure there is kinship. They find these people and realize they share a father in the sense that he's their common father sperm donor. They look alike. They maintain contact each other. They go on vacations together. You should read the article. They are indeed, half brother, half sisters, and that's kin.

Sounds like a bunch of pathetic losers who are desperate for friends. That gomer in the picture needs to get a life of his own and stop being a whiny bitch. Just looking at the guy makes me think "crybaby."
 
Sounds like a bunch of pathetic losers who are desperate for friends. That gomer in the picture needs to get a life of his own and stop being a whiny bitch. Just looking at the guy makes me think "crybaby."
I think this is more of a concern than the gomer.

Now, there is growing concern among parents, donors and medical experts about potential negative consequences of having so many children fathered by the same donors, including the possibility that genes for rare diseases could be spread more widely through the population. Some experts are even calling attention to the increased odds of accidental incest between half sisters and half brothers, who often live close to one another.
 
"Now, there is growing concern among parents, donors and medical experts about potential negative consequences of having so many children fathered by the same donors, including the possibility that genes for rare diseases could be spread more widely through the population. Some experts are even calling attention to the increased odds of accidental incest between half sisters and half brothers, who often live close to one another."

The problem is these medical experts were conceived with sperm that was already used 3,000x times.
 
You knew this was going to happen. It's not like they were going to pick the sperm from the pimply faced non-white guy living in his mother's basement.
 
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