helpmeout: Mostly the motherboard, I think. I also think it also has to do with the BIOS and the way it is programmed, in that it might require you to disable your onboard graphics. I also know I did have this issue a couple times in older Compaq systems, wher eI had to disable the onboard video. But mostly in newer machines this has never been a problem. As was suggested and if you plan on keeping your current computer for a while, there are a number of video cards that provide dual monitor support. This is often a better and more elegant solution.
AEB: A KVM won't help as KVMs are for sharing one keyboard, monitor (video) and mouse between 2 or more computers. A splitter would help, only assuming you wanted to mirror the desktop on two displays and not run with an "expanded" desktop.
\Dan