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NoToRiOuS1

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i went to meet up with my friends in another state(use to live there) before i make the move to the west coast. one of them has yellow fever...just like me. he's a white guy who's dated nothing but asian girls for the past 2-3 years, from what ive heard. and of course, when i saw him this time around, he was with yet another girl. the messed up part about it?......he tells me he's with her just for sex. he's done that before, and though its not right, its still not what pissed me off. so i was talking to her and i find out she came to this country from indonesia when she was 22 with a white guy and they were both engaged. the guy once he brought her here...immediately started cheating on her and did it about 10 times or so...and whenever he was home he 'demanded' sex at least 2-3 times a day. she was on the verge of suicide...she eventually ended up moving to another state(PA) and tried to start a new life for herself but the fact is that her fiance visa has expired, and without that she can't really apply for a good job. she still makes ends meet for now.
the fvcked up part is that this friend of mine KNEW...what she'd been through....yet he STILL choose to be with her just for sex...
at first, when he was with other girls, i was like whatever, its a phase he's goin through, but i at least thought he had some sort of morals or ethical values....but i guess not...i mean if a girl has had such a horrible life for the past few years...why do you go ahead and try to fvck it up even more just so you have sex. i mean if he did this to a girl who has a stable life here...or family or friends then, even though its still wrong, would be better than what he's doing with this girl.
god.....so f-in f-ed up....:|:|

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friend of mine is with a girl who's been through a lot of sh1t in life when it comes to boyfriend/fiance but this guy is still with her just for the sex...and he doesn't at all think about her.
 
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KarenMarie

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she has to learn on her own... looks like she will learn the hard way. the guy is a sh*t
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Sluggo

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I remember some story about buying cows and free milk, I think it relates to your story.
 
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Nebor

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Originally posted by: Sluggo
I remember some story about buying cows and free milk, I think it relates to your story.
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You have sex with cows?! :Q
 
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NoToRiOuS1

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1.) <---- attended public school so lets drop this punctuation and/or proper sentence format crap pls....plus....too pissed off at the moment to care about those things anyway
2.) it IS my business because it makes ME look bad...i thought i was surrounded by people better than that, and yea i can just not be around him anymore as somebody will probably suggest...which is exactly what i plan on doing...but i just wish i had known sooner about his messed up little mind that doesn't give a rats about anyone else but himself.
3.) even though i think she's really pretty, i dont plan on having her for myself like that unless i had decided to marry her or something...im not about to go ruin her life just like this guy for a night of sex or something
4.) another point that further justifies #2 even more: you can say its none of my business if i interrogated those two to find out the following information. but i found on these things in a normal conversation. and i felt very pissed off by it and i think...and i repeat...I THINK...its messed up....so how is it any of your business to tell me what i should or should not care about, Yossarian?
 
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NoToRiOuS1

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Originally posted by: Deeko
If she is fine with it just being for sex....whats the problem
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she's not....she feels pressure with my friend...similar to the way she did with her ex-fiance...thats what the problem is.
believe me..if she was okay with it, i would be happy for the both of them.
 
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JulesMaximus

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Originally posted by: faboloso112
1.) <---- attended public school so lets drop this punctuation and/or proper sentence format crap pls....plus....too pissed off at the moment to care about those things anyway
2.) it IS my business because it makes ME look bad...i thought i was surrounded by people better than that, and yea i can just not be around him anymore as somebody will probably suggest...which is exactly what i plan on doing...but i just wish i had known sooner about his messed up little mind that doesn't give a rats about anyone else but himself.
3.) even though i think she's really pretty, i dont plan on having her for myself like that unless i had decided to marry her or something...im not about to go ruin her life just like this guy for a night of sex or something
4.) another point that further justifies #2 even more: you can say its none of my business if i interrogated those two to find out the following information. but i found on these things in a normal conversation. and i felt very pissed off by it and i think...and i repeat...I THINK...its messed up....so how is it any of your business to tell me what i should or should not care about, Yossarian?
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Because you asked us? :confused:
 
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Yossarian

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Originally posted by: faboloso112
so how is it any of your business to tell me what i should or should not care about, Yossarian?
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because I have learned that the less you care about what other people do the happier you will be.
 
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NoToRiOuS1

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Originally posted by: Yossarian
Originally posted by: faboloso112
so how is it any of your business to tell me what i should or should not care about, Yossarian?
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because I have learned that the less you care about what other people do the happier you will be.
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i digress. apologies yossarian. im just not in a good mood right now.
 
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Reel

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Originally posted by: faboloso112
1.) <---- attended public school so lets drop this punctuation and/or proper sentence format crap pls....plus....too pissed off at the moment to care about those things anyway
2.) it IS my business because it makes ME look bad...i thought i was surrounded by people better than that, and yea i can just not be around him anymore as somebody will probably suggest...which is exactly what i plan on doing...but i just wish i had known sooner about his messed up little mind that doesn't give a rats about anyone else but himself.
3.) even though i think she's really pretty, i dont plan on having her for myself like that unless i had decided to marry her or something...im not about to go ruin her life just like this guy for a night of sex or something
4.) another point that further justifies #2 even more: you can say its none of my business if i interrogated those two to find out the following information. but i found on these things in a normal conversation. and i felt very pissed off by it and i think...and i repeat...I THINK...its messed up....so how is it any of your business to tell me what i should or should not care about, Yossarian?
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That looks like $10. Please donate it here.
 
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tami

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i think you need to talk to the girl. give her strength. perhaps get her counseling. let her get enough courage to drop him -- and don't keep any secrets from her. you'll need to tread carefully, though, since you don't want to tear her apart from the news but you don't want her to be manipulated in such a way.

i have no respect for your friend.
 
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well if she is in a relationship and happy with it,
i guess there is nothing you can really do

most important thing is, be there for her as a friend.
you can only give friendly advise
 
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