OMG huge exgirlfriend update

[bigbootydaddy]

OK OK,

remember how much i always whine abouting want my ex back, i must have said it daily. Well, remember she got a new boyfriend, and i found out info about him, and wanted to know how to make his life miserable, but knew that was childish and had you all post ideas just for grins, like gay porn email and hack his geocities page. She is transfering from northwestern to UNiv of Texas in fall. im goign to UT also in fall.

she came home for spring break. Not even 24 hours pass. she cheats on him. 4 times.


WITH ME.

OMG...am i supposed to feel bad?? i asked her if she regrets messing around with me, and she said no. I asked, well what about the other guy?? She said she is honest to herself, and if she transferring then it will end with him, they now have an open relationship where she can go out and meet others.

well....im gonna keep my mouth shut for now....things going too good to be true.

and this time, i know its not love maybe it does open our chances if we have something to have a reason to be together at UT. but for now, no promises.

OK I HAD TO TELL SOMEONE

 

[urbantechie]

At least someone is getting some

 

[Scrapster]

Question: Does this guy own a beefed up pick-up truck with a shotgun against the back window and deer antlers mounted on the hood?

Just curious...

 

[dopcombo]

heh a relationship with this type of girl will not last long once u get into college.
especially if she's already cheating before she gets there.

IMO, she's just using you. But it's up to you to believe it.

Whatever happens though, just be happy. Hey, at least you're gettin some...

 

[bigbootydaddy]

<< IMO, she's just using you. But it's up to you to believe it >>



yeah thats obvious, she did mention i am the only one she would cheat with...cuz i was her first everything, and going into year 3 of college, i hope she is mature not to keep doing this with any average joe.

i believe her, but at the slightest notice of bad signs im pulling out completely

plus a lot can happen between now and fall.

 

[Soybomb]

<< but at the slightest notice of bad signs im pulling out completely >>



lol.....nice way of putting it......

 

[gtsukada]

Just remember if she leaves her current b/f and gets back with what is stoping her from cheating again on you.

 

[gooseman]

LOL, if I were you, I'd be pulling out BEFORE any bad signs!!!

 

[bigbootydaddy]

hehe, i guess my terminology was funny

yeah, its not like we are getting back together...just should i feel bad or not?

 

[kcklla]

You never know how many people she is &quot;seeing&quot; at any one time, but hell if it makes you happy go for it

 

[Scrapster]

just should i feel bad or not?

That's sort of a dumb question. Did you feel bad while you were gettin' it on with her? Ofcourse not. So why feel bad now?

 

[nullshark]

<Question: Does this guy own a beefed up pick-up truck with a shotgun against the back window and deer antlers mounted on the hood?>


Hey! That's what I drive! :|

 

[RGN]

<< but at the slightest notice of bad signs im pulling out completely >>

umm, yeah.

 

[bigrash]

use her like she use you.

hmmm, i guess that makes some sense

 

[joohang]

I agree with bigrash9. She's likely using you and messing around. So if you feel like it, you just mess around with her too. Have fun and dump her when at the first time she does anything stupid.

 

[bonk102]

well at least your getting some, cuz i've been striking out royally this week

 

[DannyLove]

once a cheater always a cheater

good luck yo

p.s i laughed my ass off when you said she cheated 4 times (my jaw dropped then i continued and read ON ME, LMAO good going, but watch out)

Danny

 

[Double Trouble]

<<yeah thats obvious, she did mention i am the only one she would cheat with>>[/]

Riiiiiiiiiight.... Hey, I have a bridge in New York that I can sell ya too!

Any girl (or guy for that matter) that messes around like that on one boyfriend is bound to do it again with any other partners down the road. I'd be using all sorts of protection - safety suit, goggles, gloves, boots, etc etc

 

[Emulex]

i bet that &quot;cheating&quot; sex0r was the best you ever had huh!

 

[bigbootydaddy]

emulex: heck yeah!!



<< Have fun and dump her when at the first time she does anything stupid >>



exactly.

shes a goody goody. i know her too well. it is the first time she ever cheated.

its sad, but yeah its an awesome feeling that i made her cheat...hehe,i guess she loves nice chests

 

[Sgt.Speculum]

I know I never say much around here, but this thread struck suck a chord with me, All I can say is Dude, You seriously F'd Up!!! You should have just kept walking! You are in for a world of hurt. How long has she been gone? Have you been starting to feel better? Now you just set yourself up for a major relapse. Look at your last sentence:

&quot;and this time, i know its not love maybe it does open our chances if we have something to have a reason to be together at UT. but for now, no promises.&quot;

It's obvious to me that you are already getting your hopes up. She's going to hurt you again, and that I will gaurantee 100%. At first everything will be great, maybe for a month or two, then she'll start wondering why she came back in the first place, she'll have doubts again, and bang, you are going to be left a miserable, sobbing heap. Feeling even more rejected, lower, and sorrier than before. Not to mention kicking yourself for putting yourself back in this position in the first place. You think that &quot;it's not love&quot; but you still love her. You can't just turn your feelings off. You will not be able to be in just a &quot;casual&quot; relationship with this person.

I hope to god that you can prove me wrong, I hate to see people suffering, especially people here. I think you should stand back and objectively look at this situation. Man, when my ex-fiancee(6 years together)came looking for me after leaving me for no reason. Sure, it was tempting, but do you really want to be with someone who treated you like this in the first place? Sure, the grass is always greener, until things don't quite work out. You can be fallback boy if you like, but I would hope that the satisfaction that knowing you made the right decision(moving forwards, not backwards), would be much more fulfilling

Remember, there are too many great people out there, you can call me a dreamer, but I believe you will find someone to love and cherish you the way you want, not just being some guy that she decided to &quot;settle&quot; with.

You can give me crap if you like for peeing in your cheerios, but I would look at it as more of just a genuine caring for people, and the fact that I can't stand to see people in pain if it is avoidable.

Good luck,
Ian

 

[bigbootydaddy]

sgt

i see your point. im being very careful, you are right i still feel for her. but so much bad has happened that it was made me turn away..thats why right now its all for fun. at least i hope.

 

[Regine]

My favorite sergeant couldn't have said it better.

 

[Sgt.Speculum]

bigboooty daddy,

PLEASE PLEASE END IT NOW!!!!!!! Do yourself a favor. There is absolutley no way that this situation will contribute anything positive to you.

 

[bigbootydaddy]

end what tho??
im not getting with her, just and she has done so much bad to me that i am moving forward...with or without her. when we get up to UT, no doubt we will look each other up, but i dont think itll go beyond that.