jonmullen, I found that link... Like most 4guys articles, they really glaze over the technical details. I do believe that many of their articles are accurate though, and do promote somewhat decent coding practices. It's just that most of their articles always wanting more information regarding their decisions.
stephbu, thanks! I ran across another msdn article but it wasn't as detailed as that! I think there are two things I need to learn a bit more about if I really want to understand the benefits though: I need a deeper understanding of COM, and protocol level details of what a database driver does. Oh, and welcome to the forums
Now to try and explain some of this to people who do not understand that "SELECT * FROM myTable" isn't very good, especially when you only desire one row from the query.