Ok, so I did end up buying that Nascar Pro Digital 2 wheel, figured for $10 it was worth a try. When I plugged it in on my win8 machine it looked like it installed (dinged a couple times) but I don't see anything to calibrate.
Googling, I found
this link for a win7 driver, but when I tested with a racing demo on steam it seems to "see" the wheel but the left pedal is the gas (backwards).
Would the game be better off trying with older games or am I still needing a better driver?
EDIT: I am testing with a demo of Race07, and I was able to use the wheel but for some reason it would phantom down shift at times. I forgot I also have Grid, I'm downloading it now and will try that later.