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[Zysoclaplem]

Let say you and this guy/girl are kind of talking. You have talked about possibly dating and you have both said you are really into each other, and that you really like each other, but nothing is official.

Then you find out that right after the last time you got off the phone with this girl/guy, he/she decided to meet up with some girls/guys, who he/she met online, and have a threesome.

Would you still be interested in or consider dating this person?

I mean, you are not actually dating the person, and they are free to do whatever they please, right?

 

[archcommus]

Nope.

 

[JM Aggie08]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Let say you and this guy/girl are kind of talking. You have talked about possibly dating and you have both said you are really into each other, and that you really like each other, but nothing is official.

Then you find out that right after the last time you got off the phone with this girl/guy, he/she decided to meet up with some girls/guys, who he/she met online, and have a threesome.

Would you still be interested in or consider dating this person?

I mean, you are not actually dating the person, and they are free to do whatever they please, right?

o boy. go for it, if shes into that, you can get some all the time, and now just from her

 

[LordMorpheus]

It'd probably turn me off, but I wouldn't be pissed at them about it.

 

[imported_LoKe]

Depends. Is the threesome all women? =D

 

[Patt]

Makes you wonder about their lifestyle a little bit ... no?

 

[GeekDrew]

No, I think I'd skip that one, or at least really closely evaluate why I think I should proceed.

 

[Lola]

i guess it would be dependant upon a few things:
what kind of relationship you want with this guy
if this is something they do often
if they are safe about things


i would be leary of someone that does this on a cosntant basis.. but if you really lik this guy, you might be able to over look this. but don't think he will change if this is something he does normally/often if you start dating.

good luck.

 

[KarmaPolice]

I would say it depends on you.

Are you into that kind of thing? Do you approve of it? Can you live with someone who wants to / has done it?

 

[Bryophyte]

I think you and he are probably heading toward different goals. You seem to be looking for a mate, he seems to be looking for sex. There's nothing wrong with either of those, you just need to make sure that you both want the same thing or you're going to get hurt.

 

[Garet Jax]

Well if nothing was official, then you have no reason to be upset with them unless they did something you find morally distasteful or something you are not prepared to live with in a partner. In that case, you should end the relationship before it starts.

/thread.

 

[Chunkee]

Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
I would say it depends on you.

Are you into that kind of thing? Do you approve of it? Can you live with someone who wants to / has done it?

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Let say you and this guy/girl are kind of talking. You have talked about possibly dating and you have both said you are really into each other, and that you really like each other, but nothing is official.

Then you find out that right after the last time you got off the phone with this girl/guy, he/she decided to meet up with some girls/guys, who he/she met online, and have a threesome.

Would you still be interested in or consider dating this person?

I mean, you are not actually dating the person, and they are free to do whatever they please, right?

If it was a threesome involving three other girls then yes, provided she could get me in on the next session.

 

[archcommus]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Let say you and this guy/girl are kind of talking. You have talked about possibly dating and you have both said you are really into each other, and that you really like each other, but nothing is official.

Then you find out that right after the last time you got off the phone with this girl/guy, he/she decided to meet up with some girls/guys, who he/she met online, and have a threesome.

Would you still be interested in or consider dating this person?

I mean, you are not actually dating the person, and they are free to do whatever they please, right?

If it was a threesome involving three other girls then yes, provided she could get me in on the next session.

If there are three girls ANYWHERE in this world just getting together for some casual fun without cameras or money involved, they are definitely hideous.

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: JM Aggie08

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Let say you and this guy/girl are kind of talking. You have talked about possibly dating and you have both said you are really into each other, and that you really like each other, but nothing is official.

Then you find out that right after the last time you got off the phone with this girl/guy, he/she decided to meet up with some girls/guys, who he/she met online, and have a threesome.

Would you still be interested in or consider dating this person?

I mean, you are not actually dating the person, and they are free to do whatever they please, right?

o boy. go for it, if shes into that, you can get some all the time, and now just from her

FYI-The OP is gay.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Well as of that happening, I just lost interest. Im not mad, I just dont want to proceed.
I was under a certain impression, and I was wrong.