A couple of things: Sidebanding is disabled in the all shipping GF3 ti BIOS. You can edit the BIOS to enable sidebanding and re-flash your vc, but nVidia doesn't recommend it due to stability concerns. I have never seen a real-world difference AFA FPS in either my GF1 or GF2 both which ran with Sidebanding enabled on my P3V4X.
Fastwrites have also been known to cause instability, although my current mainboard doesn't support Fastwrites, my old P3v4X didn't show any FPS gain with it enabled.
The AGP aperture question: it doesn't have to be set higher than the memory on the vc, in fact, I have mine set at 64 MB, with a 64 MB vc, no problems running any D3D or Open GL game at 1280+ with great fps. In fact, most tech sites recommend 64 MB, or at most 128, if you check out the BIOS Guide on Adrians Rojak Pot, higher AGP Aperture #s only create a "bigger" GART table which can actually be a detriment to performance.