Ok, what do I do? I need HELP!!

[TonTo]

Ok, here's the situation. Me, Lissa, Woo, and Robby. Me and Woo have been friends for a long time, we've done some things that are a lil more than friendly, but nothing serious. Now, enter Lissa, THis chick, she's perfect, up front in your face attitude, don't care 'bout what people think 'bout her, totaly like her, and she likes/liked me. Enter robby, the guy don't like me, i don't like him, he's messed with my relationships before, he goes and tells lissa that me and Woo are dating or somthing like that, lissa gets pist, cuz she doesn't want to get played, and that's what robby was making it out like. What do I do? she says she's not pist at me, but, you know how that is,... i don't want to give up on this, cuz it could be really great. HELP
PM me, reply, Email me, just HELP.
thanks

 

[Mo0o]

you sound like a loveline call. anyways, beat the crap outta robby. then explain it to lissa. in a few more years your life can be a soap opera

 

[TonTo]

I can't beat the hell outa robby...... he's lissa's friend

 

[J3anyus]

Tell Lissa that Robby was lying to her, and that'll make her pissed off at Robby, therefore she'll care less about him and stop listening to everything he says. Then, ignore Robby, and try to keep Lissa away from Robby. That's what I'd do at least. Make sure to tell Lissa though, she'll at least lose a little trust in Robby.

 

[GoldenGuppy]

<< Tell Lissa that Robby was lying to her, and that'll make her pissed off at Robby, therefore she'll care less about him and stop listening to everything he says. Then, ignore Robby, and try to keep Lissa away from Robby. That's what I'd do at least. Make sure to tell Lissa though, she'll at least lose a little trust in Robby. >>



I agree w/ J3anyus to a certain extent. You should talk to Lissa and tell her about Robby passing out false allegations... but you shouldn't do it in such a way that would cause turmoil between Robby and her. If you make it seem as if this is a big argument, then it will just go back and forth and never, ever be settled.

Whta oyu have to do is talk to Lissa and tell her the truth in your own words with no sugar coating on your part and no bad mouthing for the sake of Robby. If you act mature enough about the situation, then she would easily be able to see the situation for herself.

Just don't go anal on her, that's the last thing that you should do!

Besides, if you tell her, &quot;Woo and myself are just friends, nothing really beyond that. It's really you that I like.&quot; I'm sure that she'd understand. Girls usually can detect sincerity in a guy's voice. And trust me, if you're telling the truth, she'll believe you and respect you for it

Good luck

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