Ok, so it was late, Iposted in the wrong forum, all I can do is blush and hide, but I appreciate all the help I can get.
In a nutshell, and as follows, I have tried oh so hard to apply logic and common sense to a situation that evidently uses none.
I meet a girl in my class, she is nice, funny, and attractive. After class we chat and talk about "things", meaning, the stuff she'd like to do after college or what she did this weekend. Don't get me wring, I like to here it. Usually, she will tell me that she did nothing, mostly hung around her apartment cleaning, etc. <---- that some sort of hint?
Anyways, after our first exam, the first thing she says is "we should get together and study for the next exam", I simply say, "ok". If I get to class on time, she will always sit next to me if there is a seat available. If it's later in the day, sometimes I hear my name called and she will come up and talk to me.
so, somedays my hunger supercedes my desire to chat, so I dart out of class (unknowingly playing hard to get I guess...). She remembers things that I tell her from a week before that I forget about... as though she were searching for a topic. Now at this point, your thinking, duh, should be pretty obvious!
so I continue...
one day in class, she strolls in late, sits next to me (we both hate our class), so she writes on a piece of paper "how was your interview" (shes always like that, remembers everything it seems), so this piece of paper gets passed back and forth (she telling me about her halloween costume, when she goes out, etc). Well, as it turns out, thursday nights are also my "big" night as thats the only time I can get my friends to go out without their girlfriends. I also write that too her, she then replies " I thought you had a girlfriend?"...I know damn well I never said anything like that, nor implied so... so I reply"how did you come up with that?"
she replies, "I remember from one of our conversations you saying you have a "girlfriend"" (me thinking, oh hell no I'd never even come close to implying that). So I reciprocate, "do you have a boyfriend?" and here is the message I'm trying to understand... "no, boyfriends are a pain in the a$$, I keep a few around then dump them when they become inconveinient". (my jaw hit the desk, I dont play those games). bearing in mind that she always seems interested, always chatty. My guy friends are telling me to run, my girl-friends are telling me that shes full of it trying to make herslef look better and that I NEED to ask her out. me, aside from a couple SHORT flings, hasn't had a relationship in 4 years, I'm 24, this girl is 25. what to do? I'm pretty sure she's interested... I gave her my email once when I was going to miss class, she missed it too, have yet to recieve an email from her. don't really know where to go.
In a nutshell, and as follows, I have tried oh so hard to apply logic and common sense to a situation that evidently uses none.
I meet a girl in my class, she is nice, funny, and attractive. After class we chat and talk about "things", meaning, the stuff she'd like to do after college or what she did this weekend. Don't get me wring, I like to here it. Usually, she will tell me that she did nothing, mostly hung around her apartment cleaning, etc. <---- that some sort of hint?
Anyways, after our first exam, the first thing she says is "we should get together and study for the next exam", I simply say, "ok". If I get to class on time, she will always sit next to me if there is a seat available. If it's later in the day, sometimes I hear my name called and she will come up and talk to me.
so, somedays my hunger supercedes my desire to chat, so I dart out of class (unknowingly playing hard to get I guess...). She remembers things that I tell her from a week before that I forget about... as though she were searching for a topic. Now at this point, your thinking, duh, should be pretty obvious!
so I continue...
one day in class, she strolls in late, sits next to me (we both hate our class), so she writes on a piece of paper "how was your interview" (shes always like that, remembers everything it seems), so this piece of paper gets passed back and forth (she telling me about her halloween costume, when she goes out, etc). Well, as it turns out, thursday nights are also my "big" night as thats the only time I can get my friends to go out without their girlfriends. I also write that too her, she then replies " I thought you had a girlfriend?"...I know damn well I never said anything like that, nor implied so... so I reply"how did you come up with that?"
she replies, "I remember from one of our conversations you saying you have a "girlfriend"" (me thinking, oh hell no I'd never even come close to implying that). So I reciprocate, "do you have a boyfriend?" and here is the message I'm trying to understand... "no, boyfriends are a pain in the a$$, I keep a few around then dump them when they become inconveinient". (my jaw hit the desk, I dont play those games). bearing in mind that she always seems interested, always chatty. My guy friends are telling me to run, my girl-friends are telling me that shes full of it trying to make herslef look better and that I NEED to ask her out. me, aside from a couple SHORT flings, hasn't had a relationship in 4 years, I'm 24, this girl is 25. what to do? I'm pretty sure she's interested... I gave her my email once when I was going to miss class, she missed it too, have yet to recieve an email from her. don't really know where to go.
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