ok my first date went pretty......

desiplaya4life

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confusing? we went out to movie (saw wedding date) n then to a open lively mexican restaurant.. she mentioned several times she liked the movie (cuz i was bored the hell outta it n worried lol) we talked in depth about our past lives n out opinions on different subject.. well at the end i dropped her off to her car (met at starbucks first) and said goodbye.. SHE SAID to call me next day and hope have a good nite I ASKED for a kiss and she gave it to me on the lips)


well she forget her jacket in my car so she called me righ tafter we said goodbye n reminded me that i have her jacket .. i asked we can turn around n give it to her.. she said dont worry, when we meet next time u can give it to me.. (good thing?)

well next day i did not call her cuz i was busy but i did txt her at midnite sayin hey how are u.. and she just gave short generic responses.. (she said she was tired?, should i believe? she got off work at 1am) well next morning (sunday) i asked her if she would like to go out again sometimes and she didnt respond to me email.. (in betweeen i did call her though to ask if she would really like me to drop the jacket off her work cuz she asked me for it sunday morning). she said no dont worry we can meet some other time...

what should i do? all i know is that i think im not a good straight road:( what i can do remedy this back up? should i even worry? she did not respond to my question on goin out again.
 

It sounded at first like she wanted to see you again, but you're getting mixed signals now. At least figure out a way to give her jacket back. But I'd say she wants to hang out again, if you ask me.
 

z0mb13

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you gave her too long of a time to think..

shouldve sealed the deal that night

:D:D

 

bradruth

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I hope you talk more clearly than you type. You text messaged her instead of calling? And you asked her out again via email? Yikes.
 

anxi80

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text'd? email'd? call'd? take it easy.. just be cool, give it some time. you have something important of her's, just hang on to it for the meantime and then call her within the next couple of days and ask if she wants to go grab a bite to eat or something. and yes, dont ask her out via email/text.

playa 4 life, eh? im messin' with ya.
 

Quasmo

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dude calm dowm... first call her on wednesday, and dont talk to her until then... it's called "playing the game" its good that you didn't call her the day after. Second, never ask her out on a second date in an e-mail, you twit if she kissed you on the lips she most likely is attracted to you and will give you a second date. Just take a deep breath and call her on wednesday.
 

KarenMarie

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you went out on Saturday night?

Today is only monday... if you contact her again, she will think you are desperate.

Personally, if I were in your shoes... I would not call her again.. if she wants her jacket.. she will call you... and if she doesnt want to see you bad enough that she is willing to lose a jacket over it, then I guess there is not a lot more to be said...

but if you hound her... she will run a mile.

If you dont hear from her by Friday... just drop the jacket off in her mailbox.

Good Luck!
:)
 

Gibsons

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Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: Gibsons
This sounds like a Seinfeld episode.

If Seinfeld was like this it wouldn't have gone past the first season.


This would've happened to George!

Like when he left the goofy fur hat at some girls apt on purpose.

 

bradruth

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Originally posted by: Gibsons
Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: Gibsons
This sounds like a Seinfeld episode.

If Seinfeld was like this it wouldn't have gone past the first season.


This would've happened to George!

Like when he left the goofy fur hat at some girls apt on purpose.

"She said 'if you have the time!"
 

desiplaya4life

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dude this girl is one like... you see int he preview hitch.. just down right different from other girls... so yea i freaked myself out a lil more than i should:(
 

UncleWai

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She left the jacket in your car because she thinks the jacket's been contaminated with your nerdiness, not because she wants to see you again.
 

Originally posted by: desiplaya4life
dude this girl is one like... you see int he preview hitch.. just down right different from other girls... so yea i freaked myself out a lil more than i should:(
What in the fvck does this post translate to in English?
 

pyonir

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What is this thread about? I can't interpret the jibberish in the OP's posts...so I have no idea.
 

desiplaya4life

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Originally posted by: columbiaflier
You come across as desperate so I'm not surprised she is now showing mixed signals.

you are right...


its not jibberish i think you are in college level to interpret it quite well and just respond instead of picking out more problems
 

xcript

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Originally posted by: pyonir
What is this thread about? I can't interpret the jibberish in the OP's posts...so I have no idea.
It's about yo momma.