Oh sweet god...

[Beev]

Ok, to preface, we are an office of roughly 40 people. We have our little cliques like every other office and things work fine. One of my coworkers, and a good friend at work, sits next to a girl (not very attractive, but that doesn't matter). When he first started he asked her out, she said no, and that was that. However, he often teases her about it and asks her again (with a massive sarcastic smile on his face) she laughs, he laughs, our god damn bosses laugh.

Fast forward to Monday of this week and apparently he did something completely unrelated to piss her off, so to "get even" she reports him for anything he's ever done. He gets in trouble, written up, etc. Now it's Friday, and all week he has been super quiet and secluded. He used to bring humor to our office in more ways than one and now it's like his personality was literally killed.

Stupid bitch.

/rant

-3/10

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L&R--->

 

[apac]

Wow, she's evil.

 

[KLin]

Hopefully he learned a valuable life lesson here.

 

[Beev]

Originally posted by: KLin
Hopefully he learned a valuable life lesson here.

Never trust women?

 

[Zolty]

It is his own fault for leaving himself vulnerable. Meet girls at bars and through work friends, do not pick up on your co workers.

 

[ballmode]

F women in the workplace

 

[Beev]

Originally posted by: Zolty
It is his own fault for leaving himself vulnerable. Meet girls at bars and through work friends, do not pick up on your co workers.

As far as I know, after she told him no the first time he "got over" her. All of the subsequent times he asked her were just to be silly, and EVERYONE knew it.

 

[imported_LoKe]

Happened to a buddy of mine at work.

 

[KLin]

Originally posted by: Sraaz

Originally posted by: KLin
Hopefully he learned a valuable life lesson here.

Never trust women?

1. Never ask a co-worker out
2. If you do and are rejected, DON'T TEASE THE CO-WORKER ABOUT IT!! :roll:

 

[MrChad]

Originally posted by: Sraaz

Originally posted by: KLin
Hopefully he learned a valuable life lesson here.

Never trust women?

What exactly did he "trust" her to do? Endure relentless teasing so that he can feel better about his inadequacies and embarrassment?

 

[maddogchen]

lame, what a let down. i want more drama!

 

[K1052]

hell indeed hath no fury...

 

[Geocentricity]

The female coworker's laughter is followed with rolling eyes, correct?

 

[iRONic]

Originally posted by: Sraaz

Originally posted by: Zolty
It is his own fault for leaving himself vulnerable. Meet girls at bars and through work friends, do not pick up on your co workers.

As far as I know, after she told him no the first time he "got over" her. All of the subsequent times he asked her were just to be silly, and EVERYONE knew it.

EXCEPT whoever wrote him up.

 

[Ns1]

Originally posted by: KLin

Originally posted by: Sraaz

Originally posted by: KLin
Hopefully he learned a valuable life lesson here.

Never trust women?

1. Never ask a co-worker out
2. If you do and are rejected, DON'T TEASE THE CO-WORKER ABOUT IT!! :roll:

dude, she played along and they all got a good laugh. she's a stupid bitch and should be alienated from the office.

if she wanted it to stop she should've said so

 

[Capt Caveman]

What did he actually say or do to piss her off this time? Obviously, it couldn't have been a joke if she had been willing to joke about it til now.

 

[edro]

Sexual Harassment FTL.

 

[KLin]

Originally posted by: NeuroSynapsis

Originally posted by: KLin

Originally posted by: Sraaz

Originally posted by: KLin
Hopefully he learned a valuable life lesson here.

Never trust women?

1. Never ask a co-worker out
2. If you do and are rejected, DON'T TEASE THE CO-WORKER ABOUT IT!! :roll:

dude, she played along and they all got a good laugh. she's a stupid bitch and should be alienated from the office.

We're only getting 1 side of the story here. No one can say how the girl really felt about being teased about it.

 

[MazerRackham]

NEVER try to date women you work with. NEVARRRR!!!!

 

[Beev]

Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
What did he actually say or do to piss her off this time? Obviously, it couldn't have been a joke if she had been willing to joke about it til now.

I believe they were talking about something stupid to do with politics. Their views differed, she took the immature way out.

 

[EagleKeeper]

Originally posted by: iRONic

Originally posted by: Sraaz

Originally posted by: Zolty
It is his own fault for leaving himself vulnerable. Meet girls at bars and through work friends, do not pick up on your co workers.

As far as I know, after she told him no the first time he "got over" her. All of the subsequent times he asked her were just to be silly, and EVERYONE knew it.

EXCEPT whoever wrote him up.

And her also.

There is a saying NO means NO.

If either side thinks otherwise, they are setting themselves up for a serious problem.

 

[clamum]

Originally posted by: ballmode
F women in the workplace

:laugh:

 

[MrChad]

Originally posted by: NeuroSynapsis
dude, she played along and they all got a good laugh. she's a stupid bitch and should be alienated from the office.

We're only getting one side of the story here. My guess is that she felt uncomfortable about the whole thing from the beginning, she played along initially thinking that he would let it go and finally she lost her patience. I'm not justifying what she did, but his behavior sounds pretty juvenile from the description.

 

[James Bond]

That's pretty lame.

 

[Beev]

Originally posted by: KLin
We're only getting 1 side of the story here. No one can say how the girl really felt about being teased about it.

She laughed about it with everyone. The two went to lunch together frequently. They talked all the time. They hung out outside of work.

I think that looks like a pretty solid friendship. Apparently she takes her politics seriously... Or she was on the rag.