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Oh my God...

Auryg

Platinum Member
This pertains to my other topic here, but I feel that this needed a separate topic in itself...

That girl that I was talking about up there? Just found out she used to be anorexic, and lately she's had bullemic tendencies.

I don't think I've ever felt this bad about something I've done in my life before. It shouldn't have been that big of a deal, but now knowing that she had/has problems with her self image...

I sent her a message today and she sent me one back, so she isn't entirely pissed at me I guess..

I just..anyone know what the heck I should do in this situaion?

Edit: Cliffs..
Liked a girl in band
Did a photochop that involved her face
Girl got mad about it ( i think, over the internet)
Turns out girl used to be anorexic
 
i saw a bumper sticker that said "Bulemics Know how to Deep Throat". I thought it was funny.

Edit: Oh, and its not so bad, as long as you don't make fun of her about it.
 
Damn I hate these thread.


Be open and talk to her about it in person. If she doesn't feel like talking about it, just say you're sorry and make it up to her by offering to do something with her that is different, like a road trip to a major city, and walk the streets or something. Doesn't cost too much money. If you live in the country side, take her where there are A LOT of trees, should be beautiful now that it's fall. If she's a little strange one, do something that would cater to her likings.

Also, WTF does her being Anorexic and Bulimic have to do with her looking like a racoon?
 
Originally posted by: Theguynextdoor
Also, WTF does her being Anorexic and Bulimic have to do with her looking like a racoon?

Nothing, other than anorexia and bulemia usually stem from bad self esteem/bad self image...and I made fun of the way she looks.

And tomorrow I'm going to try to do *something*, but I don't want to creep her out at the same time by asking her to do something after I just made fun of her.
 
Originally posted by: iamwiz82
How can you be both? One is not eating and the other is binging and purging?

She used to be anorexic, and from what I'm reading she every once in a while does the bullemic thing.
 
Originally posted by: Auryg
Originally posted by: Theguynextdoor
Also, WTF does her being Anorexic and Bulimic have to do with her looking like a racoon?

Nothing, other than anorexia and bulemia usually stem from bad self esteem/bad self image...and I made fun of the way she looks.

And tomorrow I'm going to try to do *something*, but I don't want to creep her out at the same time by asking her to do something after I just made fun of her.
Dude by asking apologizing and making it up to her by taking her out to do something, is helping her BOOOST her self-esteem if that's what you're worried about.
 
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