Off to Parris Island, SC.

Ackmed

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Joining The Marines as a reserve. Going on Oct. 10th, be back on Jan. 5th. There are many reasons why. Not going to lie, its going to be tough. Miss the wife and kids, and Im almost 32. Had to fight to get it, and get an age waiver. I think it will be worth it.

Im not enlisting full time, once my 13 weeks of boot camp is over, Ill be doing 4 weeks of MCT, and then 8 weeks of schooling for the job I picked (engineer). I will be able to call, email, have visits, and make visits during school and MCT. No contact other than snail mail during boot camp. After all of that, Ill be home, except for 2 days a month, 2 weeks a year, and if I get called into service. Then I would be gone for 6-9 months.

Yes I know its time away from home, and from my family. I believe its going to be worth it in the long haul. My wife is a very strong woman, and both of our parents are within a 15 min drive. She and the kids will be OK. The hard part is my 2 year old boy wont understand. My 7 year old daughter will, and does.

Main reasons for doing is, I feel that I am very blessed. I have a great life in all honesty. Not to sound like Im bragging, but I have a wonderful wife, and two great kids. We do many things as a family, and it makes me appreciate it very much. I live in a nice house, have nice things, and have a nice job. Im right in the middle of middle class. I know I have this life in large part due to past people who have served, such as a lot of my family. Both grandpa's, both dad's (one step). I do not have any false illusions that I am going to go win a war, kill a lot of people, save a lot of lives, or make an impact that anyone but me, and a few close to me will notice. I just want to do my part, even if its a tiny part. Down the road when my kids, or their kids get older, and if they ever ask me what I did during this times, I can tell them. I made a commitement, and took a stand.

Other reasons include, something for me to be proud of, and for my family to be proud of. And I expect to be a better man, husband, and father from it. I dont expect any career change, Im not looking to go full time, and I dont think Ill benefit from the schooling. But who knows.

 

Al Neri

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watch out for the sand gnats or whatever they are called... bit the crap outta me... oh wait, i never joined the usmc
 

BoomerD

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Good luck to ya. Boot camp is the hardest thing I ever did in my life. Possibly the most rewarding as well. I did mine at MCRD San Diego, not Parris Island, but the curriculum is the same, as are the instructors...Most likely, "The Grinder" will become your worst enemy, (other than yourself), with the possible exception of the quarterdeck...
You'll learn lots of things there...including TONS of stuff about yourself that you never knew.
Semper Fi!
 

MiniDoom

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at least it wont be mid-july. good luck and thanks for your service.:beer:
 

DCFife

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Have fun and don't let any of it get you down! I was Army and I hated it at the time but in retrospect BCT was awesome and I'd gladly do it all over again if I had to.

Good luck!
 

mchammer

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:beer::beer::beer: From what I have heard about the USMC it seems like a great organization. Good luck on your journey. Please keep us updated.
 

OutHouse

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32 and going into boot? damn dude, prepare to get the DI's full attention
 

CVSiN

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Good luck... it is VERY hard now but if youve been working out and running and getting your head where it needs to be you should be fine..

its a good life dont let anyone tell you different..

 

Unheard

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Born and raised in Beaufort, SC (which surrounds PI), been out there multiple times to see graduations. Don't let the crucible get you down, stay strong, and you should be alright. Also, in advance, thank you for your service to our country.
 

Ackmed

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Thanks for the support. I picked the Corps because I believe they are the best, no offense to any other branch. They offered zero signing bonus, where as others did. Im not doing it for the money. Ill take a rather large pay cut doing this for the next 6 months or so.

Originally posted by: Citrix
32 and going into boot? damn dude, prepare to get the DI's full attention

Yeah, Ive been told Ill be a focal point for them, at least initially. And probably the platoon leader, something I have no desire to do to be honest.

Im in better shape than most out of highschool though. Not as good as some though, I realize this. I took some "before boot camp" pics, to compare when I get home. Not sure how much Ill lose, probably 15lbs or so.

 

MaxDepth

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This is a command from a citizen you've sworn to protect (well, actually the constitution - but I have a copy in my house, ergo protect me):
do not die!

I'm afraid that you will be called overseas. I don't see how anyone fulltime or in the reserves could not be called over there, especially Marines.
 

fbrdphreak

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Thanks for joining. I feel the same way you do about our country and how lucky we are to be where we are in life, one way or another. It takes some serious dedication and courage to join up, especially with a family and good life. Stay safe and good luck :)
 
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Very admirable. I'm 29 and have been considering the same thing here lately. My brother did his 4 years in Okinawa and was called back up for a year after 9/11, but he stayed state side doing Homeland Security stuff.

My Dad is an old Devil Dog. Force Recon, 12 years, 3 tours in Vietnam. He was an instructor at Paris Island for a year as well. So you could almost say I'm a Marine by default due to my upbringing.....lets just say if I did something bad (and got caught) I didn't do it twice ;).

I wanted to join back when I was 20. At the time I was with my now ex wife, and we just had a son. Things were rocky for us and I thought it would help our future. She was adamantly against it, and in the end I didn't go, using "I stayed for her" as an excuse.

I'll admit it though, deep down inside I was scared shitless of going. The Corps is not the branch you go into if you have ANY doubts. It will eat you up and spit you out.

You sound like a solid guy, more people should have your outlook on life. Your wife and kids should consider themselves lucky.

Edit: and not that it matters, I'm just curious, are you of Middle Eastern descent? Your username is why I ask.
 

FreshCrabLegs

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Awesome deal, Ackmed.

Good luck to ya and don't give up!

Keep AToT updated when you get time on a PC. (After you email your family of course.) :)
Originally posted by: Citrix
32 and going into boot? damn dude, prepare to get the DI's full attention
Just wondering, how difficult was it for you to get an age waiver? And did you have to go through a bunch of red tape because of your marital status and dependents?
 

Ackmed

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Originally posted by: MisterJackson

Edit: and not that it matters, I'm just curious, are you of Middle Eastern descent? Your username is why I ask.

Nope, born and raised in Alaska. Its just a user name I used from years ago, because I lost my account that had my normal forum name, fallguy.

Originally posted by: PCMarcelino

Just wondering, how difficult was it for you to get an age waiver? And did you have to go through a bunch of red tape because of your marital status and dependents?

Had to have a General sign off on it. Had to do a complete history of where I lived, and my jobs since I was 18. Had to write in my own writing why I want to join, and what I have to offer. The dependants were not that big of a deal in the end.

Initially the recruiter told he couldnt do anything for me. He pretty much said with my age, and dependants I was out of luck. I had called him, and he asked my age, height and weight right off the bat. After I told him, 5'11" and 195lbs, and that I had a family, that is when he told me he couldnt do anything for me.

I basically had to talk my way into even meeting with him. After he did meet with me, he was sold. He has been pushing for me to join with the higher ups, working hard for me. Another thing that slowed me way down, was I went to a private school. And the type I went to (self paced) is looked at like a GED. The Marines pride themselves in not taking any GED's, in fact only 5% can be. Even though my pre-test was over twice what I needed to pass. You need to scrore a 31 on the ASVAB to get in, I was over twice that. Until two years ago, home school and other self paced private schools were OK, not so anymore. After several months, it finally got approved. Mainly because another recruit had the same type of schooling, and they looked into it further.

Also, I had to run 3 miles in under 29 minutes, do 100 crunches in 2 minutes or under, and at least 3 pull ups. A normal recruit only has to do 1.5 miles, 45 sit ups, and 1 pull up. You get 100 points if you can do 3 miles in 18mins or under, and then you lose 6 points per minute over that. I did it in 20:23, so I got 82 points for it. You get 100 points if you the crunches in under 2 mins, I did that. So I had 182 at that point. You get 5 points per pull up, I did nine. Elbows all the way straight, and locked. I did 9, so I got 45 points for that, and a total of 227 points. You need only 140 to pass, so I was well over the mark. Here are two pics I took of myself last week to compare with pics I take after I get back. I can stand to lose some weight, but I dont think Im that bad for being almost 32, and do no exercise at all. Well, I ran behind my daughter holding her bike seat helping her learn to ride her bike... thats about it.

Ive been thinking about it for around a year. And started to talk about it with my wife after 6 months or so, when I was sure I wanted to do this. This is not a knee-jerk reaction, or some pre-mid life crisis. Its a well thought out decision, with my family having input. My wife is 100% behind me, and proud of me already. Shes been looking at woman Marine wear. :) I have been actively trying to get in for around 4 months. Its taken a long time, but Im pretty fired up and ready to go.


 

SmoochyTX

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Originally posted by: Ackmed
Joining The Marines as a reserve. Going on Oct. 10th, be back on Jan. 5th. There are many reasons why. Not going to lie, its going to be tough. Miss the wife and kids, and Im almost 32. Had to fight to get it, and get an age waiver. I think it will be worth it.

Im not enlisting full time, once my 13 weeks of boot camp is over, Ill be doing 4 weeks of MCT, and then 8 weeks of schooling for the job I picked (engineer). I will be able to call, email, have visits, and make visits during school and MCT. No contact other than snail mail during boot camp. After all of that, Ill be home, except for 2 days a month, 2 weeks a year, and if I get called into service. Then I would be gone for 6-9 months.

Yes I know its time away from home, and from my family. I believe its going to be worth it in the long haul. My wife is a very strong woman, and both of our parents are within a 15 min drive. She and the kids will be OK. The hard part is my 2 year old boy wont understand. My 7 year old daughter will, and does.

Main reasons for doing is, I feel that I am very blessed. I have a great life in all honesty. Not to sound like Im bragging, but I have a wonderful wife, and two great kids. We do many things as a family, and it makes me appreciate it very much. I live in a nice house, have nice things, and have a nice job. Im right in the middle of middle class. I know I have this life in large part due to past people who have served, such as a lot of my family. Both grandpa's, both dad's (one step). I do not have any false illusions that I am going to go win a war, kill a lot of people, save a lot of lives, or make an impact that anyone but me, and a few close to me will notice. I just want to do my part, even if its a tiny part. Down the road when my kids, or their kids get older, and if they ever ask me what I did during this times, I can tell them. I made a commitement, and took a stand.

Other reasons include, something for me to be proud of, and for my family to be proud of. And I expect to be a better man, husband, and father from it. I dont expect any career change, Im not looking to go full time, and I dont think Ill benefit from the schooling. But who knows.

Thank you very much for your service!
 

winr

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You will do well Ackmed :sun:

Thanks for serving.

Now...can you sneak me in ?? :D



:)