Have we determined what fraction of the adults in other major American cities suffer from mental health problems?
To shira: Yes, self hate is universal. Folk like Hellen Keller may be safe because they did not learn as children via being put down with language that they were worthless, but without language they also can't develop there own capacity to experience and resist the disease.
To all and to me:
But one of the features of the ego is to prize its supposed mental health, to avoid feeling worthless as all costs. A population, therefore, that identifies as having a high degree of mental illness is a population that is more liberal than conservative, a population that is more realistic and honest about its inner condition.
Humanity is asleep, living in an upside down and backward world where the paradoxes of opposites are not understood. A psychological truth, that is not understood then, is that down is up, that to heal we have to dive down and swim out of a capsized boat, the prison. we are in. What this means in this instance is that the sicker you know you are, the healthier you actually are. because it is in feeling the sickness you feel that you have that one can remember how one came to be sick in the first place.
The real danger of mental illness is when it expresses itself as revenge, when self hate is projected and justified as allowable expression.
This is why the world isn't dying from mental illness, but from not denying what it is. The world is dying from the pretense of ego.
Do not flatter yourself that you are mentally healthy but strive for compassion for the ill, because when you see them you are looing at yourself.
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Are you a functioning individual, a parent to loves and takes care of your children, a success in business, a doer of some kind, a person leading what we would call a successful life? If so then you know consciously that you can't actually be the worst in the world and every success that you have is a positive and a proof of that. I tell you only that to know you feel like the worst in the world is enormously difficult to do but that the feeling is deeply hidden but there. Step over it and keep going if you can, trust that you are loved by God is you have faith. Trust that the true nature of human beings is to be positive because it is. There is this huge treasure of inner riches you possess that can never be exhausted.
None can escape being put down as children but none of the words were true. We were hurt and that hurt was buried and never resolved. There is an assumption we were all forced to swallow, that we deserved our suffering when we know we didn't and that is the source of our rage.