Now THIS bothered me.... Has it happened to anyone else?

DesignDawg

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OK, here's the story:

I was at the store the other night, about 6 p.m. I was making some homemade chex mix, and I had to pick up some lemon juice and some onion salt. I decided to get a jug of milk also. So, here's what I look like.... Average dumpy Joe, carrying lemon juice, milk, and spices, wearing a GAP fleece jogging sweats pull-over, jeans, and sandals. Minding my own business, I stop for a sec at the valentine's candy stand to see if the sweet tarts are out yet. There were two girls looking for some candy also, and they had left their shopping cart a couple of feet away.... Well, the candy stand is a big square that you walk all the way around. They were coming around the corner clockwise, and I was going around it counter-clockwise. When I got on the other side of them, just near the area of their grocery cart, one of them JUMPED, LUNGED over toward the cart, SNATCHED HER PURSE, and shot me the most EVIL "I've got mace, you sick thief motherf@cker!" look at me DEAD IN THE EYES. W H A T T H E H E L L was that all about? I didn't look shady, shifty, or threatening, my ARMS WERE FULL, I was looking at the candy the whole time (as a matter of fact, didn't even NOTICE really that there were any girls OR carts in the area until this happened.) WTF? That insulted me SO BAD. Has this happened to anyone else? You know, if she was just being careful with her purse (which I presented her with no reason to do), she could have made it a little less sudden, and could DEFINITELY have done it without giving me the look! She was just being MEAN when she did that! -Which enforces my feeling that I didn't look the LEAST BIT threatening to her. Had she felt threatened, I doubt she would have had the balls to treat me that way. She would have grabbed the pruse and moved along. DAMN. Just about ruined my night, but I just had to let it go.

Ricky
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Moonbeam

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Yup the same thing happened to me, but I got real mad and put her down and humiliated her and had her crying and then we had sex for about three weeks. Too bad that didn't happen to you. :D
 

RGN

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I was under the impression that Moonbeam was a 'her' ... Sorry.
 

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Ricky,

No doubt it isn't any reflection on you. If she gave you that look, it was most likely in reaction to something that had happened to her before. :| Living in the city, I've noticed situations like that before, and I just have a tendency to ignore them now. Generally they mean well, but the first rule, of Boy Scouts, Rape Victims, and other crime victims is the same: Be Prepared.

Rob
 

DesignDawg

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RGN,

I will live? Thanks for that. Oh, and Kiss my ass. If all you have to contribute to my thread is to make fun of me, please don't feel the need to post it.

Ricky
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DesignDawg

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One thing I was thinking about when this happened is the fact that people probably tend to treat minorities like this. Most likely, I've never had this happen because I am white. If I were a black man, I seriously doubt this would be the first time. That's just an observation. Not meant to stir any racial wars up, so please, save it. For what it's worth, that fact makes me very sad, and I hope I have never treated anyone like that for no reason. (Color of skin os what I would consider a fine example of "no reason")

Ricky
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Aquaman

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I hear you Dawg........ that particular thing has not happened to me but being a larger chinese fellow, I've gotten my share bad treatment from non-chinese & chinese people alike. It really ticks me off when chinese people talk about me not knowing that I'm chinese and can understand them. Most of the time they are in for a real suprise when I start talking to them in Chinese :D

Cheers,
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Beowulf

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That sucks.I havent had any of those situations happen to me but it must suck bad to be caught off guard for no reason.About the mace damn I dunno why she would say that I mean I work as a best buy sales rep.(yes I know it sux) I would expect to hear that more often because we all know nobody wants help from any BB sales rep.
 

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I would have just looked right back at her and kept looking at whatever you were looking at.

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When I was in high school and would go to the mall with friends, every once in a while we'd notice someone following us around department stores watching us. Mind you, I wasn't a thug looking punk white kid, didn't wear my pants around my knees, nor were my friends. Just average Joe Blow high school kids. One of my friends actually had the balls to go up to the guy and to tell him to stop following us, we're not gunna steal anything. The guy looked pretty shocked, but he quit following us.

Maybe that girl has had her purse stolen out of her cart before? Maybe she reminded you of someone bad in her past?
 

DesignDawg

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Nate,


<< I would have just looked right back at her and kept looking at whatever you were looking at. >>


Pretty much exactly what I did. But it caught me so off-guard, I didn't have the presence of mind to give mer an equally bad look. I just looked at her because she jumped, and it caught my eye, then when I saw the look I gave her, I'm sure my look was one that probably read as &quot;What? Huh? WTF? Uhhhh.....&quot; Of course, after she walked off, my face pretty quickly changed to &quot;Maaaaaan. SH!T. Like I was gonna steal your damn purse. Geez.&quot; I guess some of you are right that maybe I reminded her of someone or she has had something bad happen in the past? In a way, I kinda knew all these things when it happened, which is why I was able to not let it burn me too bad. I just wanted to hear how many others this has happened to.

Ricky
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RossMAN

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Is homemade Chex mix that hard to make? Don't you just take a bunch of stuff, mix it together and bake it?
 

DesignDawg

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And, this made me think of something else.... I worked at a bookstore once, and one of the supervisors told me when she was trining me to &quot;Keep an eye on the black people when they come in here. You have to watch them or they'll rob us blind.&quot; Man, that really got to me. My observation that this stuff usually probably happens to minorities made me remember this. I never watched the black people any more closely than anyone else.... I mean, hell, I am pretty sure statistics show that the biggest shoplifters in the country are teenage white girls anyway. I never wtahced that supervisor either, but I'm sure she didn't try to hide that she was watching people when they came in. I always approached every customer when they came in and offered my help. I guess she would offer and then pressure them to look at something in particular, so she would have an excuse to &quot;help them.&quot; I don't really know. It must suck having to deal with this kind of crap all the time.

Ricky
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DesignDawg

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Hahaha. RossMAN, yep, that's it. Very easy to make. I must admit, though, what I was making was actually CRISPIX mix. The recipe is on the box. I'm pretty sure it's on the chex box as well. The recipe I used was

9 cups crispix cereal
1 teaspoon gralic salt
1 teaspoon onion salt
4 teaspoons worcestershire sauce
2 teaspoons lemon juice
3 tablespoons melted butter (recipe calls for margerine, but GROSS...margerine?)

Mix all the spices, juices, and butter up well, stir into the cereal, bake at 250 for 45 minutes, stirring every 15 minutes.

NOTE: I used more salt than the original recipe, and if you notice, my recipe doesn't have any nuts, pretzels, or any of that other stuff. All I wanted was the crispix. I made it homemade because whenever I buy the ready-made chex mix, I end up just eating the white chex and leaving the rest in the bag. :)

Ricky
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Namuna

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Dawg,

I hear ya man, situations like that just plain SUCK.

I had a 'situation' the other night, turned out in MY favor though!...I stopped by the Liquor store to pick up 2 specific things (Parrot Bay and Peach Schnapps...yeah, yeah, I'm a girly drink type guy). I walk in the place, mind you I didn't wander, I went STRAIGHT OVER to the area where the Parrot Bay was.

Next thing I know, some guy from WAYYYY across the room just belts out 'CAN I HELP YOU!' He OBVIOUSLY was trying to rouse me, but I just turned around and HOLLERED back...'YEAH, WHERE'S THE PEACH SCHNAPPS!'

It was great, the guy was TOTALLY taken aback. Took him a SOLID 3 seconds to reply.

the OTHER way to look it this is that it's actually A GOOD THING! It means you look at least somewhat intimidating. I'd rather be perceived as a thug than a target.
 

DesignDawg

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Haha... You hollered back. Pretty funny. I've treated store personnel the way they've treated me. I have no problem with that. I have come to expect people to treat me bad at checkout or customer service. Nobody gives a rat's ass about customers anymore. But for that girl to do that to me was just SO out of the blue....

Ricky
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divinemartyr

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Personally I'm a pretty vocal person. Had someone ever done that to me I'd definitely get into a discussion about why and bring up the fact that I'm probably not only more financially secure than they are, and would never benefit from stealing her purse, but also point out some intelligence factors. Like the fact that you had no way of taking it in the first place, and secondly, if she hadn't been such a dumb bitch, she wouldn't have left it there in the first place. A lot of people would say that's totally the wrong way to handle the situation, but I love the opportunity to make others feel bad if they prejudged me.

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DesignDawg

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<< Had someone ever done that to me I'd definitely get into a discussion about why and bring up the fact that I'm probably not only more financially secure than they are, and would never benefit from stealing her purse, but also point out some intelligence factors. Like the fact that you had no way of taking it in the first place, and secondly, if she hadn't been such a dumb bitch, she wouldn't have left it there in the first place. >>

HAHA! That actually made me blurt out a big, fat, LOUD laugh. I woke up my wife. :) Pretty funny. :)

Ricky
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cxim

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If you take your medicine on a regular basis, things like this don't happen...
 

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Don't worry about it. Ironically it might not have been about you so much as she's trying to learn not to leave her purse in the cart and when she perceived someone nearby, she realized her error...and freaked. Maybe one of those &quot;helpful&quot; magazine shows had a segment on pickpockets the night before.

It feels bad though! I've had it happen to me and I've seen it happen to others. I saw someone return a wallet that had been dropped. The wallet's owner actually glared at her suspiciously! Of course, these stick in the mind because most times people aren't a**holes
 

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Sorry that happened man...
It is bad when people have to be so untrusting to a freaky degree... She could have been from out of town... Or maybe as pointed out earlier a victim with fresh wounds...

Maybe she was on something...

Or maybe it was the lemon juice...
;)
 

skywhr

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get it all the time, but i look mean
i have long hair and multiple piercings
i understand