nothing to see here folks. let it fall.

[Compudork]

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[jagec]

I'd say no too, but the fact that your GF is the one bringing it up, makes me think that she might get bored with you in a few years...

 

[MercenaryForHire]

I can't kiss the other chick. High or low, if you catch my drift

So who's going to take care of her needs? Your girlfriend?

And if you want legit responses, see sig. 😛

- M4H

 

[Compudork]

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[bleeb]

hmm sounds like there needs to be better communication between you and your S.O. Define all the parameters and why you want these things, or do not want to.

Bad idea to ask for advice about this sort of thing from the "stay-home" Friday Night ATOTers. =)

My excuse: gotta study for the DAT. 😉:beer:

 

[bennylong]

you fool, it's a trick!

 

[SampSon]

The first time is akward, so make sure to bring booze, I find wine works well.

If she wants to watch you with another women, go for it.

 

[Compudork]

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[xanis]

I say go for it if your gal gives the okay. If you two are really that much in love, then this will not hurt your relationship.

 

[KK]

was your gf abused?

 

[Skeeedunt]

Originally posted by: Xanis
If you two are really that much in love, then this will not hurt your relationship.

I vote the opposite.

 

[Compudork]

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[Baked]

Your girl friend is gay.

 

[Compudork]

Originally posted by: Baked
Your girl friend is gay.

And there's the ATOT I know.... 😉

 

[CaliCat]

Go for it, IF you feel comfortable. Done it and it is fun, but you have to be careful for emotions. It has to be sex w/o emotions. A ton of fun if all of you can do so.

 

[schneiderguy]

Originally posted by: Compudork
She's not rabid

thats good 😕 :Q you wouldnt want her biting you, then you would get diseased :Q

 

[DainBramaged]

No way in hell that I would do it. If I'm in a relationship, it's because I love the person that I'm with, not the persons.

 

[shoRunner]

your gf will leave you soon. you might as well get all the action you can

 

[CaliCat]

Another way to look at it is that maybe she just wants to be with another woman. Could just let her have at it and watch. Might be less complicated that way, unless she really wants you involved.

 

[datalink7]

It's a trap!

 

[Compudork]

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[CaliCat]

Originally posted by: Compudork

Originally posted by: CaliCat
Another way to look at it is that maybe she just wants to be with another woman. Could just let her have at it and watch. Might be less complicated that way, unless she really wants you involved.

She's not all that interested in being with the other chick... more like she wants to be with me, while I'm also with another chick.

Well then you have to do what you feel is right. It is hot though and the sex afterwards is amazing in my experience. If it does not work, you can chalk it to experience and move on. As long as everyone is on the same page and safe, it can be great. If not, it can cause serious chaos in relationships.

Good luck!

 

[JinLien]

Originally posted by: bennylong
you fool, it's a trick!

 

[Squisher]

Originally posted by: shoRunner
your gf will leave you soon. you might as well get all the action you can

We hold this truth to be self-evident