Midtown is NYC though. Very likely their job is there, and if it's not it's very close in Lower Manhattan. When people talk about "wanting NYC for the city experience", Midtown is the reason. They're not talking about Queens or the Bronx.
That is totally not true. You don't know New York City very well.
Even if you want to not consider boroughs like Queens, and say Brooklyn, not the real New York, which is insane, and talk about just people that live in Manhattan - most New Yorkers that live in Manhattan don't consider midtown the area to live in, all the trendy neighborhoods to live in Manhattan, and hang out in, are anything BUT in midtown actually. A lot of New Yorkers do things in the boroughs like BK and Queens. Yes, Staten Island and the Bronx are basically not visited much by New Yorkers from the 'main' three boroughs. But Manhattan, BK and Queens are considered the core NYC.
Out of dozens of dates last year none I had were in midtown. The Village, East Village, West Village, Chelsea, LES, Hell's Kitchen, Union Square, Gramercy Park, Upper East, Upper West, even FiDi. Not one in midtown. It's where few New Yorkers hang.
As far as midtown goes, weekends it's pretty busy from what I read on the forums, and from my experience including last weekend. Folks on the NYC forums that work in midtown say Tuesday through Thursday are getting pretty busy again and happy hours are pretty packed. Mondays and Fridays are still quite slow, presumably hybrid workers are choosing to keep those days at home. Overall still slower than before covid but not dead.
There are still things in midtown that are busy for both New Yorkers and tourists like Broadway and the MoMa and there are some restaurants on the higher end that locals go to as well. Other things are just for tourists.