Originally posted by: Brackis
Let your child develop their gifts. It is their life to live with the skills you nurture in them from a young age. To deny your child their god given talents is something I could not sleep with if I was you.
Originally posted by: Brackis
Let your child develop their gifts. It is their life to live with the skills you nurture in them from a young age. To deny your child their god given talents is something I could not sleep with if I was you.
Originally posted by: hiredgoons
If you'd try to hold back a potentially gifted child over worries that she might become a "geek", I'd suggest you give her up for adoption.
Originally posted by: IamDavid
Originally posted by: Brackis
Let your child develop their gifts. It is their life to live with the skills you nurture in them from a young age. To deny your child their god given talents is something I could not sleep with if I was you.
It's scary though. I have seen so many horror stories about excessively "smart" children.. And I live in a small town where she will never be challenged..
BTW: Ignore my grammer/spelling please, I'm nothing like my child.![]()
Originally posted by: IamDavid
Originally posted by: hiredgoons
If you'd try to hold back a potentially gifted child over worries that she might become a "geek", I'd suggest you give her up for adoption.
I'm not saying I want to hold her back, I just don't want her "gift" to destroy her.. Maybe she isn't even that advanced, I might just be reading to much into it... I have 2 other children, a 6yr. old and a 3.. The 6yr. old is in 1st. grade now and gets straight A's.. My yongest is way further along then she was, even at 3..
Originally posted by: IamDavid
Brackis. I am glad your experiences have been positive. I hope I can help her along like you were but like I said, I live in a small toen in Arkansas. Arkansas prides itself on being the most "backwards" state in the union.. Only Miss. can challenge us. Guess we'd have to move..
Originally posted by: HendrixFan
In all seriousness, as others have stated, you should do your best to encourage her intellectual growth. From what I have read, IQ isn't too strongly tied to genetics. A person of any intelligence level is nearly as likely as another to have a child of exceptional intelligence. If you do indeed have an abnormally smart child on your hands, dont hold her back, but also dont push her too far.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/William_James_Sidis
Follow up on this if you want, but it does show how being pushed too far can work to discourage someone from realizing their intellectual potential. I think this point is not often enough taken into account.
