if i was making $175k at my current job and could go elsewhere for $230k ... i would be GONE in a heartbeat. anyone saying otherwise is just stupid or lying, or one of those people who thinks it is commendable and normal/good to work 50+ hours a week on salary. actually if you are one of those people, that would mean you're stupid, which i already mentioned.
It's not stupid or dishonest to want to maintain ties with your workplace and community (and potentially maintain those of your family's) over chasing as much money as possible. Especially when you'd still be making a lot of money.
That doesn't necessarily make him a bad person, least of all because he's getting a pay reduction, something he might be leaving on principle alone. There doesn't have to be a plain right or wrong side here.
