Nevermind...

[BaDaBooM]

Nevermind... it was a stupid idea anyway.

 

[brxndxn]

Sounds to me like you're the one being used.. Push her away - but keep her at arm's length. She which way she chooses.

 

[prvteye2003]

His occupation has nothing to do with it. No, you can't get in trouble.

 

[BaDaBooM]

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[Geekbabe]

She's told you she's still in love with him,what other info do you need?

 

[BaDaBooM]

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[ThisIsMatt]

Dude, just stay away. She obviously has issues.

 

[pyonir]

You make people do things. They have to do them on their own terms. Doesn't sound like she's ready to do that. She'll resent you for forcing her to make that decision if you interfere with the relationship.

 

[BaDaBooM]

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[HappyPuppy]

It is none of your business. Butt out.

 

[BaDaBooM]

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[pyonir]

Originally posted by: BaDaBooM

Originally posted by: pyonir
You make people do things. They have to do them on their own terms. Doesn't sound like she's ready to do that. She'll resent you for forcing her to make that decision if you interfere with the relationship.

Well... I want it to be her choice. I just want her to know the truth so she can make a well informed decision. If she never wants to talk to me again after that, it would still be worth it if it got her to see she needs to get away from him. I just know that she's going to ruin her life if she stays with him.

She already knows. You said in your first post she knows he cheated on her (although they were on a break). She knows. She has to make the decision on her own. You said you want it to be her choice...well let it be. Don't set him up or hire a PI to have more proof of him cheating. Seems like she already realizes that.

 

[BaDaBooM]

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[BaDaBooM]

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[klah]

A lot of them are former law enforcement and would probably not take the job out of professional courtesy. You gotta find one of the sleazy ones.