netmeeting only works 1 way??

[crazychicken]

ok, so here is the deal:

we have both removed ourselves from our routers.
we connect fine through netmeeting
i can see both myself and my friend
he can see only himself

so that means both of our cameras are doing fine, our connection is fine, but then what the heck cant he see me for??

we're very confused

if you have any ideas let me know

thanks
david