Got the file deleted... it was a bit troublesome... it had something to do with the permissions.. so i just delete the permissions for that file for everyone... that means admin and so on.. then create a new one for only me with my windows logon name lol.. then boom the file enter the recycle bin lol...
by the way the DOS idea of the link sounds good.. but it have to be FAT32... the problem is... there is too much NTFS around...