Need some help here...eros and kissing subject

Gulzakar

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Eros, the Greek concept of lust and love(of the same type)...

It was my understanding that kissing and eros go hand in hand...I suppose there is mechanical kissing, but exactly how does one incorporate eros into kissing? Any and all serious answers here...this isn't for some sort of paper, this is about real life. I need some help here, badly. Ladies? perhaps you know something of help for me? I'm really quite lost about this at he moment :(
 

amnesiac

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I totally do not understand the question. Kissing someone isn't like focusing your chi. You just *kiss*. I don't know how you would need to "incorporate" anything into it.
 

Eli

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Yeah, what are you asking? How to kiss? How to kiss.. good? lol..

 

Gulzakar

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ok, your not understand this...its like this...someone tells you your a REALLY good kisser, but you lack eros...what the hell does that mean?

"someone" says your a9.5 out of 10, but you could be a 10 if you had eros...

that more clear?
 

Gulzakar

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tell me about it...I asked her...she said she'd explain more clearly, but keeps delaying it...I'm not entirely sure what to think. I'm almost 24 years old, when I meet someone that sprks my interest these days, it's because I can picture myself being happy with someone. Passion is fine and dandy, of which I have a lot, but I tend to reserve it for when the passion is felt as though being returned...meaning, I'm not going to extend myself if I feel it isn't being given in the first place.

I really wish this person could understand that my feelings go so far beyond mere passion, that it's not describale. I value the companionship I get from her, over highschool flights of fancy...