Here is a small list of things going on:
I live with my brother at college- he doesnt want to buy running shoes, so he steals mine-which I have told him I don't approve of. One evening we both plan on working out, and he wants mine. In fact he gets so mad, he proceeds to tell everyone what an asshole I am because I wont let him use my shoes when I need them...does this make sense? Slams his door swearing at me. I bought every single pair of shoes, all 3 of them at school here. Why should he be deserving of something I paid for?
Another instance-he doesnt buy his socks, but for some reason its my fault he doesnt have any socks, so instead of buying his own, he proceeds to tell everyone what an asshole I am for stealing his socks, when clearly I bought them myself...small, but still something else for him to b1tch about.
Another small tidbit- he manages to curse me out when I am using the internet because I am "disrupting his gaming" but I'm just browsing doing what needs to be done for class, so he proceeds to yell at the top of his lungs about what a complete asshole I am because I use too much of the internet.
In a nutshell he feels everything should be given to him-he doesnt have a job, therefore no money at school, so its MY FAULT he claims that he has no money...how is it MY fault? you are 20 years old, go get a job, get off your ass. My parents have given him a car in high school, I had no car in high school, he complains about how bad it is- yet he has made no effort to buy his own-all he does is bitch about it.
Now I am the older brother, I live right next to him in the hallway, what do I do? His favorite things to do is tell me how stupid I am, yet he failed in HS and ended up NOT getting into any college until he re-took courses to get into a university....he also enjoys just pretty much putting me down with every chance he gets, but its usually really small petty things that add up. He is my younger brother by 2 years. I have always been nice to him, and basically now, hes walking all over me.
He doesnt do anything but play video games, and maybe go to class, hes a pysch major. He likes to put everyone else down constantly, and it pretty much pisses me off, and now he enjoys trying to make me look like crap.
what would you do?
*Sorry its a bit of a rant, but I am pretty worked up about it, if you want more stories, I can shell them out for sure.
UPDATE: I am only here end of the semester, and hes not in my room, just in the same house. Only 4 people in this house.
I live with my brother at college- he doesnt want to buy running shoes, so he steals mine-which I have told him I don't approve of. One evening we both plan on working out, and he wants mine. In fact he gets so mad, he proceeds to tell everyone what an asshole I am because I wont let him use my shoes when I need them...does this make sense? Slams his door swearing at me. I bought every single pair of shoes, all 3 of them at school here. Why should he be deserving of something I paid for?
Another instance-he doesnt buy his socks, but for some reason its my fault he doesnt have any socks, so instead of buying his own, he proceeds to tell everyone what an asshole I am for stealing his socks, when clearly I bought them myself...small, but still something else for him to b1tch about.
Another small tidbit- he manages to curse me out when I am using the internet because I am "disrupting his gaming" but I'm just browsing doing what needs to be done for class, so he proceeds to yell at the top of his lungs about what a complete asshole I am because I use too much of the internet.
In a nutshell he feels everything should be given to him-he doesnt have a job, therefore no money at school, so its MY FAULT he claims that he has no money...how is it MY fault? you are 20 years old, go get a job, get off your ass. My parents have given him a car in high school, I had no car in high school, he complains about how bad it is- yet he has made no effort to buy his own-all he does is bitch about it.
Now I am the older brother, I live right next to him in the hallway, what do I do? His favorite things to do is tell me how stupid I am, yet he failed in HS and ended up NOT getting into any college until he re-took courses to get into a university....he also enjoys just pretty much putting me down with every chance he gets, but its usually really small petty things that add up. He is my younger brother by 2 years. I have always been nice to him, and basically now, hes walking all over me.
He doesnt do anything but play video games, and maybe go to class, hes a pysch major. He likes to put everyone else down constantly, and it pretty much pisses me off, and now he enjoys trying to make me look like crap.
what would you do?
*Sorry its a bit of a rant, but I am pretty worked up about it, if you want more stories, I can shell them out for sure.
UPDATE: I am only here end of the semester, and hes not in my room, just in the same house. Only 4 people in this house.
