need seriosu life help please wife and i are splitting up

logic0010

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ok heres the dealwere married she said she was leaving me after next payday 2 weeks
we have 2 kids we live in my parrents house shes threating to take the kids....ect we have not had a good marriage it litterly sucked. and i need to know what i should can do to keep the kids and or what actions should i do to ensure at least my parrents get them i dont care any outcome as long as she dosent end up with them 24/7 any advice?

Also reciently found out shes been trying to hook up with a good friend of mine at least he sent me the emails and aims shes been having with him and he even recorded the phone calls and gave me the tapes nothing physical has happened but he is atleast 100%honest with me so i know this is over bet heres what i am gonna do to this point she wants 2 weeks to leave f that shes out in 14hours update later. im not dealing with that she is gonna take kids to daycare tommorow im gonna pick them up at noonish and take them to an unknown friends house. then shell be home at 5ish thats where im gonna have her leave perminiately but what else should i do


Drunk and shocked & confused man with nothing else to lose
 

NikPreviousAcct

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If you want help, go to a councelor. AT is not the place. If you think it is, that's probably one of the reasons you need counceling.
 

stnicralisk

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1. Move out of your parents house.
2. Do NOT kidnap your own children, itll just make things harsher when you go to court for custody.
3. Get sober you need to think - especially since youre posting here for advice.
4. Call a lawyer.
 

logic0010

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im drunk shes in next room and all the advice iv gotten will land me in jail so im hoping someone has a better idea before my drunkin ignorance causes me to do something dumb
neways wouldnt u be drink too? considering
 

SacrosanctFiend

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Originally posted by: logic0010
im drunk shes in next room and all the advice iv gotten will land me in jail so im hoping someone has a better idea before my drunkin ignorance causes me to do something dumb
neways wouldnt u be drink too? considering

My advice won't land you in jail.
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: logic0010
im drunk shes in next room and all the advice iv gotten will land me in jail so im hoping someone has a better idea before my drunkin ignorance causes me to do something dumb
neways wouldnt u be drink too? considering

Evict her?
 

Orsorum

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Talk to a fvcking lawyer! You have proof, physical proof, and a witness, of infidelity. Good lord.
 

sygyzy

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Do you want the kids? Really want the kids? Can you afford to take care of them?
 

QuitBanningMe

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uummmmmm.....why should she not have the kids.
Second Why the fvck are you living at your rents house with two kids. I'd leave your ass too.
 

clarkey01

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Im sorry, it sounds very harsh, when I hear stuff like that It makes me not wanna get married.
 

QuitBanningMe

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Also how long has she been living there? You can't just kick her out. If she wants to be a b!tch she will get her 2 weeks +.

Not to mention hiding the kids is a no no.
 

Chode Messiah

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Originally posted by: JoeKing
walk up to her, take out penis, wave it around crazily while making whooping sounds




fin

what about chewbacca roars, helicopter noises, and a machine gun?