I guess number 2 is possible but each layer I wiped ALL the oil out.  There was barely any oil on the surface with each coat.  BTW this is a Griswold (i.e. smooth surface) pan.  Are you recommending that I strip and re-season this pan?  Please no it took so long to do the first time. 

   Also keep in mind that the surface was fine until I used it on high the first time.
		
 
		
	 
What temp are you seasoning the pan?  When I season my pans I begin in the oven but I also use the pans in cooking to further finish the seasoning process.
IMO, just using the oven has never produced a satisfactory seasoning process.  Seasoning a CI pan is not somethng that can be done in a week.  My new CI pan didnt really begin feeling "right" until after a few months and after a few years of regular use is when it got so non stick that I can make crepes on it without excess oil
You are focusing too much on the seasoning process.  Just use the pan and  tolerate a little bit of sticking.  The pan will eventually get better and better and better.
You can continue to use the flax oil and the way I would do it is after you are done cooking, scrub the pan with a sponge and hot water (no soap).  When all of the gunk and burned on crap is off, take it to the stove and turn it on to dry it off.  With a little bit of flax oil on a paper towel, lightly grease the pan and keep the heat on until it smokes.  Thats how I got my pans to be non stick.  
As long as you remember that CI is a long term project and you are in it for the long haul, you will eventually have a non stick pan that is better than teflon.