need help directly networking notebook and desktop

[kingN0thing]

I have a brand spanking new desktop and notebook-- both with 3com NICs.. and I am trying to get the 2 of um directly networked for some file sharing through windows ME. Problem is.. when directly connected.. they dont see each other.. however when i connect them through my Linksys router however-- they see each other and all is well...
this of course.. makes no sense to me.. and any help would be much appreciated.

 

[sohcrates]

are you using a crossover cable when directly connecting them? if not, then that's your problem.

also, for future reference, this should be posted in the networking forum

 

[kingN0thing]

ahhh..
thanks =) and i will make sure to use the network forum next time..
should i make or buy one of these cables?

 

[sohcrates]

i'd say make it, but frankly you can pick a short one up for like 5 or 6 bucks, so that probably makes more sense. just ask for a "crossover cat5 cable"

 

[kingN0thing]

sweet--thanks