Don't let the resentment you have for this kid being related to the owner cloud your judgement.
I once worked in a situation for a corporation my father owned(10% owned) as the general accounting manager and I got into a major disagreement with a supplier of parts to our company. The son of the supplier company told me he was going to "f*ck me up if I didn't send him a check right away". I told him I would pay him when we got paid and that he should pick up the check from me in person if he wanted it before normal payment terms. I also cleared it through my boss(who agreed) that all future exchanges of information would be by paper because I was not going to take this type of verbal abuse from anybody.
The president of the company wanted my head because of his friendship(and payments under the table as it later turned out but that's a different story) with the owner of the supply company.
You should've seen that little guy sweat when I made him pick up the check after threatening me and trying to get me fired. It didn't make him any braver that I was a good foot taller than him.
Moral of the story is that things are not always black and white. Sounds like the kid might have some ground to stand on if you say the customer is difficult.
I once worked in a situation for a corporation my father owned(10% owned) as the general accounting manager and I got into a major disagreement with a supplier of parts to our company. The son of the supplier company told me he was going to "f*ck me up if I didn't send him a check right away". I told him I would pay him when we got paid and that he should pick up the check from me in person if he wanted it before normal payment terms. I also cleared it through my boss(who agreed) that all future exchanges of information would be by paper because I was not going to take this type of verbal abuse from anybody.
The president of the company wanted my head because of his friendship(and payments under the table as it later turned out but that's a different story) with the owner of the supply company.
You should've seen that little guy sweat when I made him pick up the check after threatening me and trying to get me fired. It didn't make him any braver that I was a good foot taller than him.
Moral of the story is that things are not always black and white. Sounds like the kid might have some ground to stand on if you say the customer is difficult.
