Need advice of the romantic sort (for a friend)

Reel

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One of our not so many female ATOT members has recently been discussing a dilemma with me. Her husband and her had a bit of a fight this evening. Upon picking her up from work, he was in a foul mood. They went to purchase a new TV and she advised him it was too large to fit in the car without removing it from the box. He disregarded the advice and kept trying only to become very irritated. Eventually he removed it from the box and fit it in the car. On the ride home, he pulled into a fast food drive-thru and ordered food only for himself and did not acknowledge her food needs.

They have not talked for the past couple of hours since this incident and the TV remains in the car. She does not want to remain in this negative environment. Should she go to the library or to her boyfriend's place?

Cliffs: Husband's bad mood leads to a fight.
Silent treatment leads wife to want to leave.
Where should she go?
 

KLin

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Originally posted by: Reel
One of our not so many female ATOT members has recently been discussing a dilemma with me. Her husband and her had a bit of a fight this evening. Upon picking her up from work, he was in a foul mood. They went to purchase a new TV and she advised him it was too large to fit in the car without removing it from the box. He disregarded the advice and kept trying only to become very irritated. Eventually he removed it from the box and fit it in the car. On the ride home, he pulled into a fast food drive-thru and ordered food only for himself and did not acknowledge her food needs.

They have not talked for the past couple of hours since this incident and the TV remains in the car. She does not want to remain in this negative environment. Should she go to the library or to her boyfriend's place?

Cliffs: Husband's bad mood leads to a fight.
Silent treatment leads wife to want to leave.
Where should she go?


He knows about the boyfriend.
 

Reel

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Originally posted by: DainBramaged
She already has another boyfriend?

Another? I am only aware of 1 boyfriend in addition to her husband.
 

DainBramaged

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Originally posted by: Reel
Originally posted by: DainBramaged
She already has another boyfriend?

Another? I am only aware of 1 boyfriend in addition to her husband.

Sorry, I phrased that incorrectly. "She already has a boyfriend?" was intended to be the question. Would you explain more about the situation of her, her husband and her boyfriend?
 

Cooler

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Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: Reel
Originally posted by: DainBramaged
She already has another boyfriend?

Another? I am only aware of 1 boyfriend in addition to her husband.

Sorry, I phrased that incorrectly. "She already has a boyfriend?" was intended to be the question. Would you explain more about the situation of her, her husband and her boyfriend?

I think the girl is in the wrong if she has bf hope the husband does not post on atot,].
 

Reel

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Originally posted by: KLin
Originally posted by: Reel
One of our not so many female ATOT members has recently been discussing a dilemma with me. Her husband and her had a bit of a fight this evening. Upon picking her up from work, he was in a foul mood. They went to purchase a new TV and she advised him it was too large to fit in the car without removing it from the box. He disregarded the advice and kept trying only to become very irritated. Eventually he removed it from the box and fit it in the car. On the ride home, he pulled into a fast food drive-thru and ordered food only for himself and did not acknowledge her food needs.

They have not talked for the past couple of hours since this incident and the TV remains in the car. She does not want to remain in this negative environment. Should she go to the library or to her boyfriend's place?

Cliffs: Husband's bad mood leads to a fight.
Silent treatment leads wife to want to leave.
Where should she go?


He knows about the boyfriend.

He has always known about the boyfriend. I think he just overlooked it. It is a source of contention between them.
 

DainBramaged

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Reel
Originally posted by: KLin
Originally posted by: Reel
One of our not so many female ATOT members has recently been discussing a dilemma with me. Her husband and her had a bit of a fight this evening. Upon picking her up from work, he was in a foul mood. They went to purchase a new TV and she advised him it was too large to fit in the car without removing it from the box. He disregarded the advice and kept trying only to become very irritated. Eventually he removed it from the box and fit it in the car. On the ride home, he pulled into a fast food drive-thru and ordered food only for himself and did not acknowledge her food needs.

They have not talked for the past couple of hours since this incident and the TV remains in the car. She does not want to remain in this negative environment. Should she go to the library or to her boyfriend's place?

Cliffs: Husband's bad mood leads to a fight.
Silent treatment leads wife to want to leave.
Where should she go?


He knows about the boyfriend.

He has always known about the boyfriend. I think he just overlooked it. It is a source of contention between them.

Well, based on that, I have nothing profitable to say about this relationship so I will leave the thread.
 

KLin

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Feb 29, 2000
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Originally posted by: Reel
Originally posted by: KLin
Originally posted by: Reel
One of our not so many female ATOT members has recently been discussing a dilemma with me. Her husband and her had a bit of a fight this evening. Upon picking her up from work, he was in a foul mood. They went to purchase a new TV and she advised him it was too large to fit in the car without removing it from the box. He disregarded the advice and kept trying only to become very irritated. Eventually he removed it from the box and fit it in the car. On the ride home, he pulled into a fast food drive-thru and ordered food only for himself and did not acknowledge her food needs.

They have not talked for the past couple of hours since this incident and the TV remains in the car. She does not want to remain in this negative environment. Should she go to the library or to her boyfriend's place?

Cliffs: Husband's bad mood leads to a fight.
Silent treatment leads wife to want to leave.
Where should she go?


He knows about the boyfriend.

He has always known about the boyfriend. I think he just overlooked it. It is a source of contention between them.


Well there's nothing more to be said. She's a dumbass for cheating on her husband, he's a dumbass for putting up with it and acting like a 5 year old.
 

pontifex

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hahaha
this thread is funny
sometimes i'm glad i don't have a girlfriend
hahahahahaha
people are so stupid
 

bmacd

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remind me why you're getting involved? Sounds like her and her hubby need to sit down and talk.

-=bmacd=-
 

SmoochyTX

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Let me just say that I'm a woman and I think her husband should dump her sorry ass. Take her crap and throw it out on the front lawn and divorce her as soon as possible.

Fvck her and her hurt feelings about not getting food. Let her waaaaa waaaaa herself all the way to her boyfriend's house. What a loser.