Need Advice (Cheated on my girlfriend)

Fx02

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I know am I'm the bad guy in this situation.

Yesterday my girlfriend went though my mail and found a banking statment that had a hotel room for $100 dollars. Of course she called me at work and exploded. I tried to deny it and of course finally came clean. To make the long story short, she now wants me to go home right after work. (She's timing me) and also wants me to never go anywhere where in involves me being alone.

I understand why she's mad but she's no saint either. She had skeletons in her closet but never threw it on her face.

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fs5

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so in other words your her b!tch and she gets a free pass to cheat on you... move on my friend.
 
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work through it mate, if you guys have been dating a while you can put this behind you and grow from it and be stronger. you must try that much harder now that youve made a mistake, and if you dont your relationship will be in jeporady

gl
 

Leejai

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wow...and she still wants to be with you?....that's an interesting scenario...i'm taking this isn't the first time you've gotten caught?
 
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She owns you now, and I'm not kidding. All joking aside, if you want to stay with her (which you need to figure out one way or the other 100% FIRST) then you do what she says on her terms.

You violated her trust. You must earn it back, but there is a great chance you never will.

If so, give her my number.
 

Hammer

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Originally posted by: Leejai
wow...and she still wants to be with you?....that's an interesting scenario...i'm taking this isn't the first time you've gotten caught?

i was thinking the exact same thing
 

Fx02

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Originally posted by: shuan24
You want some advice? Next time use cash!


You're absolutely right! Although, there's more to this story. I just found out a couple of mintues ago that she's pregnant.

DAMN!!! my life as you know it is completly over! =(
 

shiner

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Originally posted by: Fx02
Originally posted by: shuan24
You want some advice? Next time use cash!


You're absolutely right! Although, there's more to this story. I just found out a couple of mintues ago that she's pregnant.

DAMN!!! my life as you know it is completly over! =(
Sure it is yours?
 

PanzerIV

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Originally posted by: Fx02
Originally posted by: shuan24
You want some advice? Next time use cash!


You're absolutely right! Although, there's more to this story. I just found out a couple of mintues ago that she's pregnant.

DAMN!!! my life as you know it is completly over! =(

Oooh damn, dude!! You knocked her up in that steamy hotel romp?
 

Bulk Beef

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She's never going to trust you again, and she'll drive both of you crazy before she realizes it.
 

shiner

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I think the bigger question here is

Why is your GF going thru your bank statement in the first place?
 

amish

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Originally posted by: Fx02
Originally posted by: shuan24
You want some advice? Next time use cash!


You're absolutely right! Although, there's more to this story. I just found out a couple of mintues ago that she's pregnant.

DAMN!!! my life as you know it is completly over! =(

why are you on your computer then? better start thinking of baby names and painting the nursery just to get back on her good side. on a plus side if you cheat on her again you can always blame it on not getting enough sex because she was pregnant.
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: sward666
She's never going to trust you again, and she'll drive both of you crazy before she realizes it.

 

Fx02

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Originally posted by: PanzerIV
Originally posted by: Fx02
Originally posted by: shuan24
You want some advice? Next time use cash!


You're absolutely right! Although, there's more to this story. I just found out a couple of mintues ago that she's pregnant.

DAMN!!! my life as you know it is completly over! =(

Oooh damn, dude!! You knocked her up in that steamy hotel romp?


NOT the person that I had an affair with. My girlfriend is pregnant. She's doesnt' know what she wants to do.