All, I thought I'd post an update after some time with the card.
The big thing to tell you is that all of you doing gyrations like installing windows just so you can run the management utilities or even using the command line on ESXi are completely wasting your time. Yup, don't bother
If you just download the Windows management utilities, they will connect to your ESXi box over the network. Yup, just install it on your desktop system and connect to your ESXi server. Just make sure that on the ESXi box, in the security profile you have the following:
Under Services: CIM Server
Under Firewall: CIM Server and CIM Secure Server and CIM SLP. In my case the CIM Secure server was there and enabled in the firewall but not running by default. Once I started it up, all was good.
In my case, when I start the client on my workstation, it tries to auto discover servers on the network but doesn't find mine. If I click on the "configure host button" and then choose the option to "Display all the ESXi-CIMON servers in the network of the local server" it then finds the IP of my ESXi box. I then log in as root and I'm in.
You can even install the client on a windows system that is itself a VM on the ESXi box though there are some down sides to that. For example I used the client to update the card to the latest firmware (what it came with was a year old) and it worked fine but told me I had to reboot the ESXi box to make the changes effective. It does not actually command the reboot. You go and shut down VM's, enter maintenance mode, reboot, etc from the VSphere client as usual. But, it still felt more comfortable to me to be running the client on my workstation rather than on a VM. But on a VM would definitely work.
Anyway this is a really cool capability and would be especially nice if you had several boxes to manage as they could all be managed from a single workstation.
Just thought you'd like to know though that all the gyrations are a waste of time.