Yeah, those (to me at least) are very different. A "brave" is a role within a tribe, same as a "warrior" or "chief". The R-word (even the forum is changing it when I first submitted, it knows!) is not, it's separating out a whole group of people purely by skin color. As racist as the day is long.
You are right, there are always people who say no big deal if they get called a beloved patriot, beloved patriot, mick, wop, dago, darkie or whatever is big these days! I'm out of touch on the latest craze in racist descriptions. (Those "beloved patriot"s there are the forum changing what I typed.)