My rant... feel free to read it.

[Orsorum]

I wrote this a few minutes ago, finally got to me when talking with a few female friends tonight. This is for all my female friends.

So, here's the deal...

I'm not going to be one of those guys that you call when you're bored, or when you "want to talk". You have girl friends for that, call them. They enjoy listening and they're going to give you a better dialogue and a better listening ear. If you have issues, call a psychologist. They're better trained, they'll give you better results, and they get paid to do it.

If you want something fixed, call a plumber. Or your school's tech support. Or the mechanic. They get PAID to fix your screw-ups. I don't. So stop calling me with tech support questions. I COULD take the time to fix it, but I won't. I don't have time to, and I don't want to.

If you're feeling flirtatious, or playful, that's great. If you have no interest in me, then shut up or stay the heck away. I'm not interested in being your emotional playtoy for the night, or your ego booster. If you want a toy, buy a barbie or a vibrator. If you want to hang out, watch a movie, and just be a cool friend, then that's great.

Finally... if you have nothing to say on IM, DON'T FREAKIN' IM ME. Nothing irritates me more than someone IM'ing me to say "'Sup?", then nothing else. It's like starting a makeout session, then never finishing it. It's a waste of time, energy, and it leaves you wondering "Why did I even bother?"

That's all. Don't like it, get over it.

*sigh* There's my grumpy mood for the day.

 

[gopunk]

i would recommend letting this one sit in your "drafts" folder until tomorrow morning, then send it if you still want to.

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: gopunk
i would recommend letting this one sit in your "drafts" folder until tomorrow morning, then send it if you still want to.

Hehe, it's on my online diary, not as an email. If my female friends read it, good for them. They can talk to me and I'll explain my rationale, and they can take it or leave it.

 

[Dhawk]

So tell us how you really feel.

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: Dhawk
So tell us how you really feel.

That might hurt your feelings, and get me kicked out of a few small towns.

 

[gopunk]

Originally posted by: Zakath15

Originally posted by: gopunk
i would recommend letting this one sit in your "drafts" folder until tomorrow morning, then send it if you still want to.

Hehe, it's on my online diary, not as an email. If my female friends read it, good for them. They can talk to me and I'll explain my rationale, and they can take it or leave it.

well that's good... i agree with most of what you have to say... esp. the IM thing. nothing more annoying than having them IM you then have nothing to say.

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: gopunk

well that's good... i agree with most of what you have to say... esp. the IM thing. nothing more annoying than having them IM you then have nothing to say.

Very true... ugh.

 

[Orsorum]

Mmm, 'k, normally I'd post this in a new thread, but i'm lazy... not that anyone will see it... 'Night, y'all.

 

[lawaris]

Originally posted by: Dhawk
So tell us how you really feel.

used like a napkin ... and not the paper one at that

 

[poopaskoopa]

Just move on to the next girl, I say...

 

[bmacd]

wow.

-=bmacd=-

 

[AreaCode707]

YES on the stupid IM thing! I don't mind talking if we're gonna talk, but just reminding me that you're on my list is unnecessary. And good for you for resolving not to be used by these folks, offer if you want to but don't be their default "emotional tampon" as someone on this forum once said.

 

[Hammer]

sup?