My mom is ticked off :(

Dedpuhl

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For the first time that I can remember (I am almost 25), I completely forgot about mother's day. I remembered it on Saturday (saw the AT topic on it). I tried calling my mom on Sunday and Monday, but there was no answer. Today I call and she is extremely ticked off and she tried her best to make me feel bad.

I don't get it. It's just another commercialized day. I always remember her birthday (and mother's day...generally) and we are always talking through email and the phone. I forget the day one time and she acts as if I should be tortured and killed.

Why are moms like this? I forgot one time. My sister (age 22) never remembers...


...but I'm the bad one....
 

m2kewl

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*gets the pitchforks ready* let's get him! :p

seriously, your mom has issues ;)
 

rgwalt

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First, your sister is the baby and will NEVER be wrong. Second, did you explain that you tried to call? I guess she was expecting flowers, a card, and/or a gift of some sort. I always send my mom at least a card. Now that I'm far away from home at grad school, I send her a gift and a card for Mother's day and her birthday. I'm not worried about her being upset with me as much as I am letting her down. Oh, and then there is my dad. He would have my ass if I forgot mom's birthday or mother's day.

Ryan
 

BooGiMaN

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they are having you taken u out of the will as we speak...your a bad bad sone..tsk tsk:p
 

KeyserSoze

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I agree. These Commercialized holidays ARE annoying. (Mothers Day/Fathers Day/Valentine's Day) I HATE them, but did get my mother a card, just because it was the day. I believe that there shouldn't be ONE freaking day where you show someone you appreciate them. (My GF doesn't believe me about this for Valentine's Day. Plus, I tried telling here there really is no signifcance to the day. As opposed to like a Christmas, etc.)

But I still make the rounds, just to keep them (Mom/Dad) happy.




KeyserSoze
 

Dedpuhl

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Originally posted by: KeyserSoze
I agree. These Commercialized holidays ARE annoying. (Mothers Day/Fathers Day/Valentine's Day) I HATE them, but did get my mother a card, just because it was the day. I believe that there shouldn't be ONE freaking day where you show someone you appreciate them. (My GF doesn't believe me about this for Valentine's Day. Plus, I tried telling here there really is no signifcance to the day. As opposed to like a Christmas, etc.)

But I still make the rounds, just to keep them (Mom/Dad) happy.




KeyserSoze



I always get my mom something for both days. This was the first slip up. I just had a lot on my mind I guess (new job, trying to find a place to live, testing, all day seminars, etc.

My dad is a different story when it comes to father's day and his b-day. He tells me not to waste my money. Sometimes I call. Other times I send cards.
 

Sepen

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My Mother has been deceased for 17 years. My wife doesn't have one either. I bought the wife flowers, got her a card, made sure my grownup kids remembered, and then I took them all out to celebrate her day. It is a Special Day for them, too bad some people don't take it seriously.
 

propellerhead

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I hate these stoopid Hallmark holidays.

I'd rather celebrate and thank my mom on a daily basis. Why schedule it on the second Sunday of May?
 

blakeatwork

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I hate "special" days outside of Birthdays, or anniversaries....

I mean, what's the point of having a day like this (Mom's Day) if it's not a national day off??? Isn't that what makes it a holiday??
 

CPA

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Don't worry about it, she'll get over it.


Just don't be like me and forget her birthday, or worse yet, your wife's birthday (I did that last year) :eek:
 

Stark

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moms are weird. wives are weirder.

I get in trouble if I can't remeber our anniversary on cue. So I started using it as part of a password.
 

yoda291

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you know....in your defense...if you're oriental...the week b4 mother's day was children's day.
 

spiridion

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it matters because you always remember it...you're expected. i forgot a wedding anniversary for my parents...yep last time i do that.
 

obiwaynekenobi

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Oh lay Off I forgot it was mothers day too

My Ex wife was ticked.


oh well sucks to be her


my mom was glad that I remebed at all even though it was late
 

BruinEd03

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Originally posted by: CraigRT
who cares about day's like this... just another hallmarkish holiday

booo to that.

mmm the original intent was so that mother's could be recognized. You don't have to do anything special, just a call or something. It's like why should we have MLK day then? Of course it's to recognize his contributions to society. Same reason we have mother's day :) (IMO it's a worthy day)

-Ed
 

y2kc

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I don't get it. It's just another commercialized day.

I'm with you... I usually blow it off and the wife usually gives me hell about it, so this year I did the whole flowers, card, gift and cooking thing and guess what... she behaved like a (semi)b!tch the whole day.. "This is MY day why should I have to do anything?" She practically ordered peolple around all day. I felt like a stinking slave man.... I tell my wife and children that I neither want or expect anything for "Father's day" because 1. it's not a holiday. 2. I do not feel the need to be congratulated or pat on the back for doing my job. If what I do as a father is worthy of recognition simply act like you appreciate it from time to time and, trust me, this does not require jumping through any hoops.