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maziwanka

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Originally posted by: DP
Originally posted by: Mo0o
Props for knowing your mistakes and props for actually finishing a god damn story around here

watch and see, i'll have to post 5 more times trying to get people to realize and understand that i messed up.

but thx for the props:beer:

hahahahaha. ill give props to that too....

i think you both created problems in the relationship. i also think that she was less attached, which allowed her to "easily" let go of you. i understand that it hurts, but this breakup is probably for the better. things may change in the future, you never know?
 
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Originally posted by: Baked
LOL, sucka. From the ending chapter, sounds like the chick played schizo on you then dumped your ass.

she may have but trust me, they come and go buddy...

<has game:cool:
 

kermalou

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i want my three minutes back, you my friend have serios problemos, go see a shrink pronto
 

eakers

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Originally posted by: DP
Originally posted by: eakers
are you nuts?! that girl was using you from the start.

not your fault, she just realised she didn't like you.

plus she was probabley bangging her exs on the side.

i'm gonna have to disagree with you about her using me. she did plenty of stuff to show she liked me. she calls/messages me daily still so if she used me why would she have any use to talk to me? she showed affection but i showed to much and drove her away.
she wanted a relationship but not one that brought stress, she already had enough on her back with school.

here is a little girl secret: when a girl "doesn't know what she wants" or "i dont know what kind of relationship i want" or ANYTHING to that effect.. it means she doesn't want a relationship with you. they might not even know it at the time thats what it means but ultimately thats what it does.

honestly, you did what any loving bf would do and i'm sad to know that you won't be supportive and whatever to girls in the future. she put you through more crap than you should have gone through in a year in a few weekends! is that the kind of relationship you want?!
 

amoeba

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relationship is like poker.

you gotta mix up your play. Gotta slowplay sometimes and gotta be aggressive at others.

And you can't show all your cards.

Of course there is also the age old line of " Poker is just like sex, everybody thinks they are better than they really are"

 
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Originally posted by: eakers
Originally posted by: DP
Originally posted by: eakers
are you nuts?! that girl was using you from the start.

not your fault, she just realised she didn't like you.

plus she was probabley bangging her exs on the side.

i'm gonna have to disagree with you about her using me. she did plenty of stuff to show she liked me. she calls/messages me daily still so if she used me why would she have any use to talk to me? she showed affection but i showed to much and drove her away.
she wanted a relationship but not one that brought stress, she already had enough on her back with school.

here is a little girl secret: when a girl "doesn't know what she wants" or "i dont know what kind of relationship i want" or ANYTHING to that effect.. it means she doesn't want a relationship with you. they might not even know it at the time thats what it means but ultimately thats what it does.

honestly, you did what any loving bf would do and i'm sad to know that you won't be supportive and whatever to girls in the future. she put you through more crap than you should have gone through in a year in a few weekends! is that the kind of relationship you want?!

honestly i'm over it. it may have been more trouble that it was worth. why won't i be supportive to girls in the future? did something i said give you that impression?




 

roguerower

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Its ok brother stay strong. Just stay as far away as possible. Women are the devil in disguise. Oh well, pick up the pieces of your heart and move on.
 

eakers

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Originally posted by: DP
Originally posted by: eakers
Originally posted by: DP
Originally posted by: eakers
are you nuts?! that girl was using you from the start.

not your fault, she just realised she didn't like you.

plus she was probabley bangging her exs on the side.

i'm gonna have to disagree with you about her using me. she did plenty of stuff to show she liked me. she calls/messages me daily still so if she used me why would she have any use to talk to me? she showed affection but i showed to much and drove her away.
she wanted a relationship but not one that brought stress, she already had enough on her back with school.

here is a little girl secret: when a girl "doesn't know what she wants" or "i dont know what kind of relationship i want" or ANYTHING to that effect.. it means she doesn't want a relationship with you. they might not even know it at the time thats what it means but ultimately thats what it does.

honestly, you did what any loving bf would do and i'm sad to know that you won't be supportive and whatever to girls in the future. she put you through more crap than you should have gone through in a year in a few weekends! is that the kind of relationship you want?!

honestly i'm over it. it may have been more trouble that it was worth. why won't i be supportive to girls in the future? did something i said give you that impression?

just that you were smothering her and whatever and i thought that you were implying that in the future when you want to call your gf at 4am you may not call and whatever.
 
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Originally posted by: roguerower
Its ok brother stay strong. Just stay as far away as possible. Women are the devil in disguise. Oh well, pick up the pieces of your heart and move on.

thx bro. i'm not really worried about it now. i was pretty upset the first few days after it happened vodka + booty call= the cure.

i still think about her but it doesn't hurt to think about her like it did.


 
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btw, i'm sure i'll have another thread about a female soon enough;) the ex is really trying to get back together but when i see another female in public it puts a huge smile on my face:D:beer:
 

Trey22

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Oct 31, 2003
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Originally posted by: DP
Originally posted by: xospec1alk
im printing this out, and reading it on the train hehe.

hehe

i'll warn you... it's immature, stupid and shows that I am the idiot to blame.

How dare you try to call pwnage on yourself! That's our job bitch!
 
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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
She's definitely banging the ex. Sorry to hear that you were taken for a ride.

if she was, she was. i got mine so who cares. but don't assume. i talked to my ex while i was dating her. but guess what, i didn't bang her while i was dating L either.

go figure..
 

Deeko

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Paranoid and clingy. In the ending...calling her 500 times between midnight and 10am? And then berating her for not calling you on a friends phone? Geez dude, let her have a night out with her friends. You weren't 'worrying that she got home ok', you were being jealous and paranoid. You are right...you coulda had this and killed it yourself.
 
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Originally posted by: Deeko
Paranoid and clingy. In the ending...calling her 500 times between midnight and 10am? And then berating her for not calling you on a friends phone? Geez dude, let her have a night out with her friends. You weren't 'worrying that she got home ok', you were being jealous and paranoid. You are right...you coulda had this and killed it yourself.

she was out with drunk people and i was just worried about her making it home. i never even tried to tell her to try and be home around this time, don't go out with those people.

i admitted i messed up and learned from the experience.
 

91TTZ

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Originally posted by: DP
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
She's definitely banging the ex. Sorry to hear that you were taken for a ride.

if she was, she was. i got mine so who cares. but don't assume. i talked to my ex while i was dating her. but guess what, i didn't bang her while i was dating L either.

go figure..

Maybe this ordeal will teach you that you should have :beer::beer:
 

Stark

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Jun 16, 2000
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Originally posted by: PingSpike
This story blows because it hasn't been finished.

I move OP's name be changed to dung pile and he be fired from ATOT.

after reading the ending, i vote the same. at least write the story so you don't sound like a complete loser!
 

silverpig

Lifer
Jul 29, 2001
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Originally posted by: Deeko
Paranoid and clingy. In the ending...calling her 500 times between midnight and 10am? And then berating her for not calling you on a friends phone? Geez dude, let her have a night out with her friends. You weren't 'worrying that she got home ok', you were being jealous and paranoid. You are right...you coulda had this and killed it yourself.

No kidding. OP called her way too damn much. And that thing with whoever was using her aim should have gone like this:

OP: Hey
Person: Oh this isn't L
OP: Ah, is she around? Know when she'll be back?
Person: No, sorry. Hey, I've got some work I'm trying to do...
OP: Oh okay, cool. Thanks anyways.

OP just pissed her friend off by insisting on knowing who it was. Take a chill pill dude :)
 

richardycc

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wow, this bring back a lot of memory of the BS I had to put up in the past. move on, and learn from your past mistakes.
 

OneOfTheseDays

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that's the trouble with women and relationships. For the first few months things are great, but once things start to slow down then you see them for who they really are. They are complex beings that I don't think anyone will ever fully understand. You try and be attentive and they say you are smothering them, you back off and they say you don't care, it's like they want the best of both worlds. The only thing you can do is to just learn what pisses them off and try your hardest not to do any of them.

and i went through a similar situation with my current gf, though i wasn't quite near your level of paranoia. she was able to tell me what was bothering her, i went to work and tried to fix it, and now things are a lot better. a lot of the time you don't even realize that your behavior may seem a little odd until someone else points it out for you. if this girl wasn't willing to give you a chance to see if you could change she's just not worth your trouble man. the right girl is out there for you, and this one just ain't it.