My last day at work and some people are purposely avoiding me

jingramm

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I was never really close to my boss or her entourage of female co-workers who happen to be on my team, but I noticed that all of them disappeared today. They remind me of a group of insecure, emotional and immature females
Some of them know that it's my last day and they purposely went to lunch unusually early to avoid getting the invite to my team lunch outing. It was just an informal event to grab lunch but they don't even show the nice gesture .
My boss also called in to work "sick" but I know she's not. I guess she doesn't want to face the "hey sure let's keep in touch" talk because we don't really care for each other. I'm thinking of leaving without saying anything to her or some of the other people on the team. Is that a bad move? Or should I be the bigger person?

- John
 

Kalmah

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Oct 2, 2003
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It sounds to me like they just don't like you for some reason or another. They want to avoid a situation that they don't care to be in. *shrug*
 

Miramonti

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Aug 26, 2000
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Be the bigger person. You're already leaving for hopefully bigger and better things and are in the much stronger position. Having a good time without them is a much stronger move, otherwise you look emotionally insecure yourself.
 

Soundmanred

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Oct 26, 2006
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One more to add to my ignore list.
If you're that insecure/paranoid in real life, I can't imagine what your internet persona is like.
 

Ksyder

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Feb 14, 2006
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well OP at least most of the above posts prove that you are not the biggest douchebag in the world
 

zebano

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Have lunch/say goodbye to people you like. Be polite, but don't go out of your way for the rest.
 

DrunkenSano

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Are you trying to hook up with them or something? Who cares if they don't show up, you're not working there anymore. They might just not like you or are afraid that you'll try to hook up with them now that you will no longer be shitting where you eat.
 

xSauronx

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Jul 14, 2000
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you could always print the thread title out and tape it to your cubicle at work and try to attention whore there, instead.
 

M0oG0oGaiPan

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her209

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Buy some fish during your lunch break and leave them a nice present in the coming weeks.