We've been together for 2 years, and for a long time she was pretty sure she could go against her family and do what she wanted, but now she's convinced there is no way out. The guy hasn't even been chosen yet, but her mother assures her that she'll set up within a year. Though she grew up entirely within the states, her family is pakistani and Muslim. I am Jewish and white - out of the question. She loves me and wants us to stay together until the arrangement is actually made.
Besides this coming "doom," things are very good and we have a wonderful relationship. But I don't know if it's good for me to stay when I could be free to date someone who is free. I think arranged marriages are bunk and I love her, but I have no voice in the matter.
What should I do?
Besides this coming "doom," things are very good and we have a wonderful relationship. But I don't know if it's good for me to stay when I could be free to date someone who is free. I think arranged marriages are bunk and I love her, but I have no voice in the matter.
What should I do?