my girlfriend got attacked last night..:(

[Semidevil]

my girlfriend, who is thousands of miles away in another country, and a month or so away fro coming to see me, called me this morning, and said she just got attacked.

she was having a cup of coffe w/ her friend, till around 1130, and on her way walking home, this guy grabbed her from behind. She started screaming and she fell down and got her head bruised, and got her arm cut....luckily, someone was walking by, so the guy got scared and left...

my girlfriend then went to the nearest market and called her brother, and her brother called the cops for her.

I can't believe this happened......she was so scared, and now, I just don't know what to say or do....I mean, she told me how it was, and I just have this image of her falling down and screaming, and this figure coming towards her. this image, it's so...just so heart and tear jerking. gosh, I really did not know what to say when she told me. She really shouldn't have been out this late by herself, but this incident already happened, and I dont know what to do...

I'm just so scared that this would happen again........It's one of those things that I never ever expected to happen, and we are so lucky that she was alright....I just dont know what to do...

 

[shuan24]

what country is she in?

 

[Semidevil]

Originally posted by: shuan24
what country is she in?

she is in korea....

 

[OutHouse]

Originally posted by: shuan24
what country is she in?

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Tell her not to go out alone again. End of discussion. It's sick and sad but women, and sometimes men, just aren't safe walking the streets alone.

 

[Doggiedog]

Originally posted by: Semidevil

Originally posted by: shuan24
what country is she in?

she is in korea....

Damn. I know someone that got raped in Korea at knifepoint.

I hear its a very bad situation there because the police don't care and many women are too afraid to come forward.

 

[suse920]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Tell her not to go out alone again. End of discussion. It's sick and sad but women, and sometimes men, just aren't safe walking the streets alone.

:thumbsup:

 

[zixxer]

yeah no kidding. regardless of country, women/smaller people shouldn't go out alone.

 

[shuan24]

Originally posted by: Doggiedog

Originally posted by: Semidevil

Originally posted by: shuan24
what country is she in?

she is in korea....

Damn. I know someone that got raped in Korea at knifepoint.

I hear its a very bad situation there because the police don't care and many women are too afraid to come forward.

even in South Korea? I thought it was supposed to be very civilized over there.

 

[munruss]

What was she wearing?

 

[Doggiedog]

Originally posted by: shuan24

Originally posted by: Doggiedog

Originally posted by: Semidevil

Originally posted by: shuan24
what country is she in?

she is in korea....

Damn. I know someone that got raped in Korea at knifepoint.

I hear its a very bad situation there because the police don't care and many women are too afraid to come forward.

even in South Korea? I thought it was supposed to be very civilized over there.

People get raped everywhere. You are dealing with sick individuals.

 

[bjc112]

Originally posted by: munruss
What was she wearing?

 

[Semidevil]

Originally posted by: bjc112

Originally posted by: munruss
What was she wearing?

I dont know...the weather is cold in korea these days and she usually doesn't wear anything revealing... so.....*sigh* I dont knw....I'm just hoping that the worst is over....and nothing else happens to her....she really can't handle these kind of things and trauma...

 

[smc13]

Originally posted by: munruss
What was she wearing?

Why would this matter? Are you suggesting that it is ok to attack someone if they wear X?

 

[MiniDoom]

Why dont you get your girlfriend on of these.

 

[Semidevil]

I just dont know what advice to give her....right now, she does private english tutoring, and she goes to her student's house, and sometimes, she will come home at 9 or 10....but right now, I even dont feel comfortable if she walks home at 7 oclock.....it's really scary.....

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Well, she should have called the police first, but thank god it didn't go any farther and that she's okay!!

 

[shuan24]

Originally posted by: Doggiedog

Originally posted by: shuan24

Originally posted by: Doggiedog

Originally posted by: Semidevil

Originally posted by: shuan24
what country is she in?

she is in korea....

Damn. I know someone that got raped in Korea at knifepoint.

I hear its a very bad situation there because the police don't care and many women are too afraid to come forward.

even in South Korea? I thought it was supposed to be very civilized over there.

People get raped everywhere. You are dealing with sick individuals.

yes I realize that women get raped everywhere. *gasp* What I don't get is your comment regarding the police not caring and the women being afraid to come forward.

 

[slycat]

mostly japan and korea.

 

[tyim]

Originally posted by: Semidevil

Originally posted by: bjc112

Originally posted by: munruss
What was she wearing?

I dont know...the weather is cold in korea these days and she usually doesn't wear anything revealing... so.....*sigh* I dont knw....I'm just hoping that the worst is over....and nothing else happens to her....she really can't handle these kind of things and trauma...

visit her?

 

[tyim]

Originally posted by: rdubbz420
Why dont you get your girlfriend on of these.

I bought my gf some pepper spray. Better than police grade. Glad now.

 

[Semidevil]

Originally posted by: tyim

Originally posted by: Semidevil

Originally posted by: bjc112

Originally posted by: munruss
What was she wearing?

I dont know...the weather is cold in korea these days and she usually doesn't wear anything revealing... so.....*sigh* I dont knw....I'm just hoping that the worst is over....and nothing else happens to her....she really can't handle these kind of things and trauma...

visit her?

I wish i can....I am still in school, and she is coming in a month or so.....

 

[Mo0o]

How did you two meet?

 

[Semidevil]

Originally posted by: Mo0o
How did you two meet?

we met when she was an exchange student in 2004......

 

[Doggiedog]

Originally posted by: shuan24

Originally posted by: Doggiedog

Originally posted by: shuan24

Originally posted by: Doggiedog

Originally posted by: Semidevil

Originally posted by: shuan24
what country is she in?

she is in korea....

Damn. I know someone that got raped in Korea at knifepoint.

I hear its a very bad situation there because the police don't care and many women are too afraid to come forward.

even in South Korea? I thought it was supposed to be very civilized over there.

People get raped everywhere. You are dealing with sick individuals.

yes I realize that women get raped everywhere. *gasp* What I don't get is your comment regarding the police not caring and the women being afraid to come forward.

Are you familiar with the culture there? Contrary to US culture, in Asian cultures, it is a shame to be raped. Unfortunately, because of this many women do not come forward. Also, to the police, it is not a top priority crime so it gets pushed aside.