My gf and I just broke up....

[hzl eyed grl]

I'm really sorry to hear that. Keep your chin up.

 

[440sixpack]

Originally posted by: Grasshopper27

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7 years is a LONG time to be together without a ring on her finger. Most women seem to be willing to wait 3 or 4 years, 7 is a lot.

Hopper

<--- working on 10 years. :Q

Well, not to make things worse, but as one who is in a real long term relationship, and as the one who's having thoughts of moving on... I would probably be giving her reasons that sound real similar to what you heard; but to be honest a large part of it is because I have developed some pretty serious feelings for someone else. Hope that's not the case, but these things usually work themselves out for the best anyway. Good luck.

 

[wnied]

Happens to all couples dude. Take this time to get your shiznit together and try to do stuff to keep your mind off it. Best bet is to not call her for awhile. Reason being is it gives her time to see what its going to be like without you. She may not end up thinking its as refreshing change as she had thought originally.

Besides, my pop taught my brother and I that the harder you chasem, the farther and faster they run. She knows how to get ahold of you if she wants you back.

~wnied~

 

[BCYL]

Originally posted by: wnied
Happens to all couples dude. Take this time to get your shiznit together and try to do stuff to keep your mind off it. Best bet is to not call her for awhile. Reason being is it gives her time to see what its going to be like without you. She may not end up thinking its as refreshing change as she had thought originally.

Besides, my pop taught my brother and I that the harder you chasem, the farther and faster they run. She knows how to get ahold of you if she wants you back.

~wnied~

good advice dude, thanks... I guess the best thing for me to do right now is stay away... Give myself and her a chance to see how life is without each other...

Thanks a lot...