My Gf and I Broke Up: SAD :(

[tantos]

well after 2 years and 1 month, she called it off tonite...She wanted to still be friends but I said no..it's better I left her alone and she leaves me alone so I can get over it without any undue lingering feelings.. I do care for her and love her but she is too immature to realize what a real relationship is about..sad but true..as in all things, time will heal all...just wanted to vent a little..thanks.

 

[rgwalt]

Sucks man... I'm really sorry to hear it. Good call on putting distance between you two. It will help, and the pain will pass.

Ryan

 

[Keego]

can I get her #?




sorry, low blow. My condolances to you buddy.

 

[VirusDub]

I feel for you, man. Good call with staying away from each other. Being friends after a breakup is so damn hard to do. Good luck with getting over it, and best wishes for your future.

 

[The Stigenator]

sorry to hear that tanos..

however I must restrain you cause your soon going to get 100's of PM asking for her digits.. well KyGuy has started already.

The hardest part is the first week and then you will slowly get over.. if you need to talk just email me.

<--- finally going to bed.

 

[monto]

hmm she called it off? if you realize she is a bit immature for the relationship, shouldn't you have moved on earlier?

no offense, just talking outta my ass, i have no gf

 

[Passions]

pics?

 

[The Stigenator]

<< pics? >>



just give the guy some room will ya...... just be assured I have seen her picture and she is HOT.. but seriously in this time of trouble in a guys life, he shouldnt be posting pictures of the person he loves the most next to himselves..
cant you wait a few days before asking for them.. :|

 

[tantos]

yes she is immature but still was a good gf.....pics? come on..if I put them up you dogs will be all over it...

 

[Jerboy]

pics?

Why do some people ask for photograph of the female figure whenever relationship problem occurs to others?

 

[TallBill]

damn, sorry to hear bro btw, how old r ya?

 

[tantos]

i'm 25..she's 20

 

[b0mbrman]

Hmmm...this response won't mean much to you now but I think you should just move on.

I'm guessing you're young and I know you live in Southern California. Open your eyes to the joy of single life...Get a haircut, eat some garlicy fatty food, and scratch yourself--it's good to be a man unattached!



<< I'm 25 >>



Awesome...I suggest you go galavanting. Also, a few drinks with a couple *good* friends never hurt anyone trying to recover

 

[The Stigenator]

I didnt know you were 25 and she was 20.. for some reason I thought both of you were under 21 or around that.

and do as bomberman said.... he obviously has more xperience than me.

 

[blueadobe2000]

.....................

 

[tantos]

yeah I thought I had something that would lead to marriage..but I guess not..

 

[fatalbert]

sucks, sorry to hear it.

I would offer advice but I won't have anything constructive to say so I'll it at this

 

[b0mbrman]

<< and do as bomberman said.... he obviously has more xperience than me. >>



I wouldn't say that...

But I've been dumped and made incredibly sad...and I know it eventually gets better

 

[tantos]

 

[Juniper]

That's gonna be a sad Xmas for you

Good luck...

 

[lawaris]

6 yrs. here and I broke up !!!!!!!!

At least u have the brains nOT to stretch it !!! Believe me that hurts.....when either one does it !!!

 

Tantos, I'm sorry, but you sound like the immature one in this case. First off, you come up with this false impression that she just called it off suddenly on one eerie night. Nothing occurs overnight and the fact that you didn't seem to recognise that in your statement shows to me you must have been dreaming in a your own universe whilst she cried aloud or silently to you--you listened not.

I think she has matured but you haven't. It's a good thing you said no to the friendship thing, especially since you still have feelings for her. It won't work and almost never has, unless you were close friends before you ever started dating.

Things happen for good . . . move on, for no one is indispensable.

 

[4824guy]

Freedom, its a beautiful feeling, isn't it?

 

[dave5317]

sorry for u, it sucks .....I had the same prob for my first gf. Well, there's so much out there. It's a bright world with full of joy, meaningful deed to be done, frenship and etc. Just cheer up and enjoy life!!

 

[tantos]

luvly: when does crying because I had to go to a close friend's bday party instead of going to her brother's recital make me immature? You can't expect me to spend every waking hour of my life with her and totally ignore my friends..That was one her reasons, that my friends have so much of my time..Now am I immature?