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MithShrike

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is 23. He is now dating a 31 year old woman. Yes, she has been married before. She is his first girlfriend. According to my friend's brother this woman is 60 lbs. over-weight and is psycho. My poor friend is convinced that he loves her... OMG! Anyways, I'm going to have to meet her sometime between the 21st and the 29th... good Lord... I hope she doesn't touch me.
 
I was 19 when I met my exfg, she was 32. She was kind of overweight also, but was very accepting of me. Love it blind and can't see when you make a mistake. I ended the relationship around 4 months ago and have never looked back. I am SOOOO much more happier without her.

We were together for over 2 years and she was a big part of my life. Anyway, point is... love is blind. You don'/t see when you make mistakes when you are in a relationship. The only way he's gonna learn is when he gets burned. You can't tell him any different.
 
Originally posted by: Mith
Yes, but I don't want to have her kids call me Uncle Matt. Good Lord that would be horrible.
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why? you don't even know the kids yet.. right? and.. he's not your brother, so.. why would they call you uncle anyway?

heh.. I can see you bein' skeptical of the woman easy enough but.. the kids are innocent bystanders.. be nice to them.

anno

 
It's your friend, so why would the kids call you uncle?

And who cares, it's his life. If he's in love, he's in love. Let him learn from his own mistakes.
 
Hmm, you people have not been enlightened as to the situation. I am considered a member of their family. I am also considered an Honorary Black Man, and an Honorary Asian.
 
What does her being over-weight have to do with her being psycho? obviously he likes her and if his brother puts overweight and psycho in the same category maybe he's the one with the problem.
 
Originally posted by: Mith
is 23. He is now dating a 31 year old woman. Yes, she has been married before. She is his first girlfriend. According to my friend's brother this woman is 60 lbs. over-weight and is psycho. My poor friend is convinced that he loves her... OMG! Anyways, I'm going to have to meet her sometime between the 21st and the 29th... good Lord... I hope she doesn't touch me.
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One of the most important things I have learned is MINE YOUR OWN FVCKING BUSINESS.


Thank you.
 
Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
What does her being over-weight have to do with her being psycho? obviously he likes her and if his brother puts overweight and psycho in the same category maybe he's the one with the problem.
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it isn't that they are in the same category it is just that they are both bad and the sum of them is far worse than how bad they are separatly.
 
Originally posted by: DerwenArtos12
Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
What does her being over-weight have to do with her being psycho? obviously he likes her and if his brother puts overweight and psycho in the same category maybe he's the one with the problem.
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it isn't that they are in the same category it is just that they are both bad and the sum of them is far worse than how bad they are separatly.
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Id so rather be with someone who was overweight than someone who was a beanpole. And besides you dont know for a fact that shes psycho.. has anyone seen her dr records??? It's a shame that people judge other people based on weight. She's probably a really nice girl. Not his "poor" friend as he said. Maybe HE's the one with problems since hes never had a date and is 23 years old. Thats more loserish than the "fat psycho gf".
 
Erm, I'm only 17... Anyways, the stock of chicks around here isn't that great and the few chances I've had it turns out I'm an utter moron with women as seen here.
 
yeah...like everyone else has said, there's a good chance that you won't be able to get through to your friend, and he'll have to figure things out the hard way. As for love being blind...more power to you, those that love like this, but I can't fathom my heart fooling my brain when it comes to a woman that I'm attracted to. We'll stop there, since there's a lot of people that will hate me for saying that alone.

Lastly, if he's 23 and hasn't had a "g/f" yet, that's totally fine. My best female friend is "dating" (nothing official, but they've been seeing a lot of each other) a new guy, who's really great for her. Lots of accomplishments, good looking, well built, good job, yadda yadda...and he's never had a g/f before. Definitions differ, and some people just don't want serious relationships until a certain time comes.
 
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