My ex is dating a co-worker..... advice?

[TonTo]

Ok, I dated maria for about 2 months, i let her live with me cuz she needed to get out of her place, yada yada yada.... turns out, she's annoying as all hell.... seriously. highly annoying... and don't get her drunk,... you'll hear the word 'buddy' every 2 minutes... ok, to the point of the post! I was watchin a movie with some friends and one of them says "oh guess who i saw lastnight" you know, the typical joking around thing that people do when they see your ex's. well, she goes on to say she saw maria at the superamerica with some greasy fool. i laughed.... the next night we're all watchin movies again, and we had to run to wal-mart for some reason. we go there and guess who's there..... maria and my coworker...
now.
this SHOULDN'T bother me.
i absolutly detest this chick....
but this freakin bothers me for some reason
plus, this guy is going to be coming into work soon...
and i'm the one who has to work the closest with him....

what should i do?
how should i react?

 

[gopunk]

if i were you, i would act like nothing happened.

 

[mrCide]

if you don't like her who cares? besides, it was only 2 months..

 

[jonMEGA]

Mention that you have a really bad rash, and you think your ex ( Maria ) gave it too you....

 

[Nitemare]

Don't know why you should really care unless you still have the hots for her. Just hope he doesn't want to hang out with you with her there if she is so obnoxious...

How do you know they were dating?


and before anyone asks...pics?

 

[gopunk]

Don't know why you should really care unless you still have the hots for her.

well i can understand, sometimes it's offensive that some guys can find dates.

 

[TonTo]

ok, i'll go home for lunch and get some pics for your pic hungry bastards....
hehe


hell no, i won't hang out with her.... you don't understand how annoying she is...
i almost lost a couple friends.... we broke up in may and i'm just not finaly getting things worked out with the friends that couldn't stand her....

never again will i forget
bro's before ho's

 

[glenn1]

If he feels the need to make mention of it, be polite and make some token positive remark about 'Maria', whether you like her or not... "She's a nice girl, i wish you both the best." Just because you dated her previously, doesn't give you cause to be uncivil.

If he doesn't mention it, you shouldn't either since it's not really your business who he (or she, for that matter) is dating, unless he chooses to make it so.

 

[Looney]

LOL if anything it should be bothering him... if not, i would piss him off by making comments about her. I'm sure the last thing a current bf wants to hear about their gf is how easy she was/is

 

[TonTo]

I CAN'T piss this guy off....
if i do.... then he can just slack off a tiny bit and boom, i get the heat....
just like he really can piss me off or i'll just give him the wrong info and say oh that's what the customer told me

 

[kranky]

All the more reason to listen to what glenn1 said.

 

[Looney]

If he feels the need to make mention of it, be polite and make some token positive remark about 'Maria', whether you like her or not... "She's a nice girl, i wish you both the best." Just because you dated her previously, doesn't give you cause to be uncivil.

If he doesn't mention it, you shouldn't either since it's not really your business who he (or she, for that matter) is dating, unless he chooses to make it so.

Geez, what kind of response is that? Maturity is NOT endorsed here at AT.

Anyways, if you have any 'intimate' photos of her, i think you should leave a copy of it behind in the photocopier 'accidentally'.

 

[clarkmo]

What kranky said

 

[y2kc]

<< what should i do? >>


Nothing besides stop allowing your ego to tell you that after you dumped her she was going to be a nun, that if you didn't want her no one else would....


<< how should i react? >>


Like an adult. You are done with her correct? so who cares. Move on.

 

[MichaelD]

I can see what angle you are approaching this from...no one else has gotten it yet. I'd get the heat if he slacks off I take it you are either his direct supervisor or responsbile for your "groups" productivity? Bummer.

In this case, professionalism and KEEPING YOUR JOB are much more important than pride over some chick was a great lay, but a mistake to have gotten with in general.

He knows you were playing "Slammy the Hammy" before him...he obviously is a greasy turd for not caring. I wouldn't touch one of my buds' "flings". I know she lived with you, but two months is a fling, and any girl that would just move in with a guy "just like that" *snaps fingers for emphasis* is a slut. No offense to you, my friend; I've had a few sluts in my time...got a few cases of the creepy crawlies too. Oh well, life goes on.

Just ignore them both and go about your daily business like nothing happened. You aren't obligated to attend all the same social functions that they do, either. Good luck.

 

[RSI]

Your ex is dating a co-worker? Wow, that's amazing. My ex dated all my friends and their friends. Yay.

-RSI

 

[TonTo]

Anyways, if you have any 'intimate' photos of her, i think you should leave a copy of it behind in the photocopier 'accidentally'.


dude i work part time at OfficeMax.... we have a CopyMax right in our store....... hehehe
i like workin there, 400 cd's with slimline cases for 38 bucks, hell yeah

edit : i only work at officemax part time, for spare cash and the deals ya can get like that 400 cd thing.... just had to clairfy so i don't look like a bytch with no job





Nothing besides stop allowing your ego to tell you that after you dumped her she was going to be a nun, that if you didn't want her no one else would....

it's not that... it's the co worker thing.... it's bloody odd and uncomfortable situation....

 

[TonTo]

MichaelD


thank you!!!

i didn't know how to say that,
thanks!!!!


yeah.... i get some test results back on thursday...... this guy is goin to be really interested about those results....
i told the doc if anything comes up positive someone is gonna come down with a bad case of dead

 

[Miramonti]

I agree with glenn1. You're better off trying to focus elsewhere. Find another girl to be interested in to help take your mind off of them.

 

[flavio]

Beat his a$s and stalk the b!tch

 

[TonTo]

Beat his a$s and stalk the b!tch


noooooo, i don't want to see her.... if he has her come out here to our work... i'll flip.... flat @ss mofo cap a 9 in his gut flip

 

[TonTo]

see, now if i say anything bad about the guy.... it'll look like i'm being an @ss just cuz he's dating her.
but,
he IS really freakin late, and there ARE 4 computers sitting there that need to be worked on.....


if i say anything, me bad cuz i'm pist at him
if i don't say anything, me bad cuz computers don't work.

 

[TonTo]

STILL! 4 COMPUTERS SITTING THERE!

and i got people calling me asking me when the fvck they're going to be done!!!

ok, i'm gonna take lunch, and if that guy isn't here then.... i'm gonn call his @ss and ream it.
it's almost NOON for christs sake!

 

[Mandrill]

Yer really living up to your name Tonto.





<< yeah.... i get some test results back on thursday...... this guy is goin to be really interested about those results.... >>

If you were "man" enough to lay down with her unprotected, who's fault is it if you caught anything? Instead of listening to adolecent morons like MichealD here, try listening to people like Glen1 and y2kc.

Grow up and behave like a man or refrain from having any sort of relationship until you are mature enough to handle it. From your posts, you obviously are not.

 

[TonTo]

Mandrill

you are aware that condoms aren't 100% safe aren't you?