My ex got married

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sash1

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Is this the same girl from that thread (maybe a year ago or somethin') that said "WE OVER UMAIR!" ??? Or am I thinking of somebody totally different. Though I'm pretty sure it was you.
 

Chiboy

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Originally posted by: sash1
Is this the same girl from that thread (maybe a year ago or somethin') that said "WE OVER UMAIR!" ??? Or am I thinking of somebody totally different. Though I'm pretty sure it was you.

Totally different, that girl got married & moved to Holland.
 

Leejai

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I know this is hard to hear and I'm sure you don't want to hear it, but it's honestly all for the best. Like someone said earlier, just imagine all the sh*t you would have to go through just to be with her. years and years of her dad doubting, looking down on you is not worth any girl.

I was in a similar situation about 4 years ago where my ex's parents didn't like me because of my race. We were together, ironically, for 5 years too. However, we both moved on (broke up because of her parents), and we're both now 4 years later happily married with other people. And as much as my ex was apart of my life and how we grew up together, I couldn't be much more happier. My wife is supportive, and her parents absolutely hold nothing against me. In fact, having both our parents' support only helps our marriage and makes it that much better.

Best of luck to you man. But just know moving on doesn't mean you have to forget those good times. Though mark my word you'll meet someone else and those memories will pale in comparison to what you will have.
 

Chiboy

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Originally posted by: Leejai
I know this is hard to hear and I'm sure you don't want to hear it, but it's honestly all for the best. Like someone said earlier, just imagine all the sh*t you would have to go through just to be with her. years and years of her dad doubting, looking down on you is not worth any girl.

I was in a similar situation about 4 years ago where my ex's parents didn't like me because of my race. We were together, ironically, for 5 years too. However, we both moved on (broke up because of her parents), and we're both now 4 years later happily married with other people. And as much as my ex was apart of my life and how we grew up together, I couldn't be much more happier. My wife is supportive, and her parents absolutely hold nothing against me. In fact, having both our parents' support only helps our marriage and makes it that much better.

Best of luck to you man. But just know moving on doesn't mean you have to forget those good times. Though mark my word you'll meet someone else and those memories will pale in comparison to what you will have.

Thank You.
 

Ameesh

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Originally posted by: Chiboy
I just found out & it makes me sad. I wanted to marry this girl but her dad would not allow it, he wantes her to marry a doctor. He got his wish but she still has my heart. Its a cruel world we live in, but remember 'what goes around comes around' I dont know what I did but it must have been bad.

what you did is being indian and not being a doctor
 

AgaBoogaBoo

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Originally posted by: Ameesh
Originally posted by: Chiboy
I just found out & it makes me sad. I wanted to marry this girl but her dad would not allow it, he wantes her to marry a doctor. He got his wish but she still has my heart. Its a cruel world we live in, but remember 'what goes around comes around' I dont know what I did but it must have been bad.

what you did is being indian and not being a doctor
:shocked:
 

Kanalua

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my in-laws didn't want me and my wife to get married. Though I think it was worth it, it's not a good expirience. You're probably better off with a girl who loves you, and her family that accepts you.
 

Skunkwourk

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sorry to hear, but looking at that pic you have in your sig, Im not sure I'd want my daughter to marry you either.
 

rise

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Originally posted by: Eghck
sorry to hear, but looking at that pic you have in your sig, Im not sure I'd want my daughter to marry you either.
lmao @ "i'll kill ya"

what a jerk. you deserve to die alone.
 

Kadarin

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So chicks seem to leave you and go get married to other guys. It must be the whole Daewoo thug thing...
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: Chiboy
I just found out & it makes me sad. I wanted to marry this girl but her dad would not allow it, he wantes her to marry a doctor. He got his wish but she still has my heart. Its a cruel world we live in, but remember 'what goes around comes around' I dont know what I did but it must have been bad.
that hurts. :(
she will soon realize that being a doctor's wife actually sucks.

 

shadow9d9

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Originally posted by: Chiboy
I just found out & it makes me sad. I wanted to marry this girl but her dad would not allow it, he wantes her to marry a doctor. He got his wish but she still has my heart. Its a cruel world we live in, but remember 'what goes around comes around' I dont know what I did but it must have been bad.


Her dad wouldn't ALLOW it? Since when does he have a say? Is the girl under his control or something?
 

KeithTalent

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I feel your pain man. My ex-wife started dating someone recently and it is killing me, though I know I should not give a crap.

I guess that's what I get for trying to stay friends with her :roll:
 
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Chiboy
I just found out & it makes me sad. I wanted to marry this girl but her dad would not allow it, he wantes her to marry a doctor. He got his wish but she still has my heart. Its a cruel world we live in, but remember 'what goes around comes around' I dont know what I did but it must have been bad.
that hurts. :(
she will soon realize that being a doctor's wife actually sucks.


Yeah, she will....just as soon as she tires of the nice house, nice cars, nice vacations to far away places, enjoying a social life with people who don't hold up pvssy blades while pretending to be stoned sitting next to a bag of scag weed and saying "I'll kill ya...."........yep......she'll get tired of that reeeeeeal quick.


Come on baby, hop in my Daewoo and lets roll up out dis piece yo!