What prompted this message is that I logged into Facebook today only to find that my account has been reported as having a fake name (which is not true). I know this was either through her using another fake Facebook account or she had people she knows report my account as a fake name. This is a huge hassle because there's no way to contact Facebook and let them know what's going on, and if I end up putting in a different name, I know the ex will find a way to report it again. Blah blah blah, whatever, it's just Facebook.
The thing is, this girl will not stop harassing me. She's diagnosed borderline personality disorder, and she just got out of the hospital after being there over a month for trying to kill herself. She's trying to "get back" at me because I broke up with her after I caught her lying about a lot of things, cheating on me with multiple people, lied about me getting her pregnant, etc. She even posts lies about me publicly on Twitter like saying I'm the one responsible for her killing herself, etc. I mean this is pretty serious when I'm in medical school and lies like this are posted for everyone to see.
I've had to block 11 email addresses, 7 Skype accounts, and 3 Facebook accounts so far.
The only thing I can do is just try to create an entirely new online identity. Fine. It sucks, but that's what needs to be done.
I can block email addresses, Skype accounts, etc, but given the way Facebook is set up, there's absolutely nothing I can do to prevent harassment like having her mark my account as fake. I've literally lost this account forever now, and this is extremely disruptive to my life because I use it to know what's going on with my classmates and keep in touch with friends and family (I'm living out of the country at the moment).
My question is... is it time to get the police involved? I already went to them once a month ago just to get some idea of what my options are. I don't know if getting a restraining order is enough, or if I should attempt to file charges for harassment. How am I supposed to know when this has crossed the line and she's breaking the law?
The thing is, this girl will not stop harassing me. She's diagnosed borderline personality disorder, and she just got out of the hospital after being there over a month for trying to kill herself. She's trying to "get back" at me because I broke up with her after I caught her lying about a lot of things, cheating on me with multiple people, lied about me getting her pregnant, etc. She even posts lies about me publicly on Twitter like saying I'm the one responsible for her killing herself, etc. I mean this is pretty serious when I'm in medical school and lies like this are posted for everyone to see.
I've had to block 11 email addresses, 7 Skype accounts, and 3 Facebook accounts so far.
The only thing I can do is just try to create an entirely new online identity. Fine. It sucks, but that's what needs to be done.
I can block email addresses, Skype accounts, etc, but given the way Facebook is set up, there's absolutely nothing I can do to prevent harassment like having her mark my account as fake. I've literally lost this account forever now, and this is extremely disruptive to my life because I use it to know what's going on with my classmates and keep in touch with friends and family (I'm living out of the country at the moment).
My question is... is it time to get the police involved? I already went to them once a month ago just to get some idea of what my options are. I don't know if getting a restraining order is enough, or if I should attempt to file charges for harassment. How am I supposed to know when this has crossed the line and she's breaking the law?
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