Move in with the girl or not?

manlymatt83

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Oct 14, 2005
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OK, so you all remember the girl that you all tried to get me to finally "make a move on", and I never did. I'm "known for this" apparently.

Well I finally did a while back, and now we're great friends and life is good.

Anyway, her and I are both looking for a place to live, and we're both interested in living with each other. However, I already sleep over her house about 3 times per week, and when I do, we sleep together, and stuff usually happens.

So if we move in together, I'd probably get to "cuddle" with her at night 365 days per year, and "you know" would happen very often.

Now I think this girl is so hot, and I even like her, but I think her indecisiveness would drive me crazy and that keeps me away. I think she has a couple things that 'keep her away' from me too.

So now the question remains: Live a year in "paradise" like this in my early 20's, and experience the 365/7/24? Or stay away because if I'm "doing it" that often I might get attached? :)

My lean is towards the latter....

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-Matt
 

EngenZerO

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Dec 24, 2001
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i say you do it... LOL.

just so i can read your next round of threads after the move in... "i am in love with her... but i cant do anything but cuddle... why did i move in with her... i am in the friends zone again..."
 

DivideBYZero

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May 18, 2001
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If the sex is there when you want it, why bother moving in with her? You don't have to live with her to nob her you know.
 

lokiju

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May 29, 2003
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:laugh: If you two don't have a committed relationship then it's bound to fail.

What's to stop her from sleeping with other guys if you two aren't dating? Same goes for you and other women, and of course if you two cuddle and sleep together as it is, it'll just cause hurt feelings and drama in the home you'd be sharing.

Bad idea no matter how you look at it IMO unless you two are an engagement or serious relationship.

 

pontifex

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Dec 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: Gnrslash4life
Another thread isnt this like your 3rd this week?

yeah, didn't he have major problems in the last thread or am i thinking of someone else?

edit: just looked at the pic. WTF ARE YOU DOING!?!??! Move in now!!!!!!!! she is hot.
 

Abel007

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No way in hell you should move in with her. You're already getting the goods and if you guys move intogether it'll complicate things to no end.

K.I.S.S.