You can be racist still. I think that the more important question is: Are you a Republican? If so, then you are probably a racist. I acknowledge that there are a few exceptions within the GOP, but they are rare.
Also, your post is very indicative of GOP-behavior. It is very suspect. The fact that you are married to one person doesn't make you immune from all racist behavior, especially to other people of other racial groups. It seems that you have followed into GOP racial-gender identity politics. "Minorities" aren't a monolithic group of people.
Please reconsider your racial-gender identity politics.