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[Grunt03]

Ok my wife has started going through the " Menapause" thing. Man I had no idea how hard this will be, she is constantly in a bad mood. I am constantly in the dog house for the smallest of things.

What the hell can I do.....................

 

[minendo]

Originally posted by: Grunt03
What the hell can I do.....................

A secretary.

 

[saltedeggman]

live with it....it will pass

 

[bret]

act like your going through the same thing, but a male version see how she likes it

what can you do? stay on atot and let her do her thing

and reserch it more... lol

 

[shimsham]

go through maleopause

 

[dmcowen674]

Originally posted by: Grunt03
Ok my wife has started going through the " Menapause" thing. Man I had no idea how hard this will be, she is constantly in a bad mood. I am constantly in the dog house for the smallest of things.

What the hell can I do.....................

What the hell can I do....................

Look for a new wife

Seriously

 

[Grunt03]

thus far it has been a month, I saty far away from her but somehow can still manage to ge ton her bad side. Man does this ever suck........

as for getting a new wife, I have way to much invested in this one.....

 

[shimsham]

lots of fishing, garage "work", yard "work", buddys need some "help". basically, get the hell outtta there.

 

[Geekbabe]

Your wife probably would benefit from a visit with her doctor,particularly if her symptoms involve a lot of hot flashes and insomina.

 

[Grunt03]

were already doing the doctor thing which doesn't seem to be helping. Just like a few minutes ago, she came back from the hospital with my son who is sick, she was telling me about the doctor and stopped mid sentence to chew my a$$ about hanging a clock in the kitchen. I put it in the same spot as the last one which broke.

Man this is going to take alot to get through.

 

[ActuaryTm]

My sincere apologies. I cannot stop laughing long enough to type a more meaningful reply.

 

[MustangSVT]

get the hell out!

 

[MisterJackson]

Your wife will get better, but she'll never go back to the way she was. This will change both of you. Doctor visits are a must for her. She should also talk to a dietician about alternative ways to help her. If you love her, just be there for her (for better or for worse, remember).

Good luck.

 

[yokomo]

some times you gatta cut your losses my friend... get baptised mormon don't get a new on just get another that is not so crabby all the time..

 

[Colt45]

get a shotgun and a mistress.

 

[Grunt03]

I just returned home from a softball game, she's sitting in the livingroom watching T.V.
She has already snapped at me, I guess I am thinking to loud. She asked what I wanted for dinner, I stated that it really didn't matter.......

My mistake, that was all she needed, then the a$$ chewing started. Why does she have to decide everything, I'm no help etc, etc etc.

We will be moving into our new house here in ten days, if this keeps up I want to leave her here and I will move with the children, she could come when this is over with.

 

[shilala]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: Grunt03
What the hell can I do.....................

A secretary.

*clap, clap, clap, clap*
A for minendo.

 

[Otaking]

Can't you tell her to be rational?

If anything, invite your buddies over and have fun.

 

[myusername]

Originally posted by: saltedeggman
live with it....it will pass in 5-10 years

fixed:Q

 

[Slacker]

Buy her a Treadmill and some baggy sweats....................

 

[Grunt03]

Ok, today is mothers day, my childrenand I will be taking her out fore the entire day. She likes to shop so all day we will visit her favorite places. This is going to be a challange and I hope I can get through it without fighting today. Odds are aginst it but we will try for her sake.

 

[keeleysam]

i wish you best of luck.

 

[Grunt03]

well Mothersday is over and we made it without killing one-another. It was very close, everything that I had planned didn't work. In the end it was my wife and daughter spending most of the day together while I watched our other children at home. The lunch or dinner plan didn't work at all, instead she wanted leftovers...

Once she returned from shopping it was time to add space between us so I was back in the computer room until 10:30, then it was bed time. I know all of this may seem funny but I do not like it at all. Our realationship has been wonderful for the past 14 years, we have always talked through our problems. We have never gone to bed angry at eachother. Now we hardly speak and there sure the he!! is no jokeing around going on in the house.
And to think I have a whole new day, week , month and year to get through.

 

[jjones]

My suggestion is, since you're in the doghouse anyway, you might as well do all of those things that would have put you in there normally like staying out late with the guys, being forgetful, etc. What the hell, if you're going to get bitched at, you might as well get bitched at for a reason.

 

[tami]

call her doctor and tell him/her what's happening with your wife and see if there are any pills to relieve the craziness. don't kill 14 years over an episode.