Mind Your Manners -- in the Gym

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Mind Your Manners -- in the Gym

Annoying socializers, grunters, and excessive sweaters can bum out your workout. Following gym etiquette not only is polite, it's safe -- for you and your fellow gym-goers. By Dulce Zamora
WebMD Feature Reviewed By Brunilda Nazario, MD

We all have different reasons for working out, whether it's to lose weight, to obtain rock-hard abs, or to stay healthy. Whatever the motivation, for some of us, getting to the gym is an achievement unto itself. So when people there are rude, gross, or downright annoying, it can be frustrating because they can distract us from our fitness goals, or worse, can hurt us. Or sometimes, we might not know it, but we may be the offending club member.

Salvatore Fichera, an exercise physiologist in New York, and Joe Warpeha, Duluth, Minnesota-based certified strength and conditioning specialist, have seen their share of careless and inconsiderate acts resulting in injury.

For example, customers who fail to wipe sweat from exercise equipment have reportedly been known to pass on communicable diseases such as rashes to other people. Cell-phone yakkers or excessively loud grunters have caused serious trainers to lose concentration and strain muscles. Weightlifters who neglect to secure barbells properly have had loose plates drop and crush toes -- theirs and others'.

These mishaps are easily avoidable. With good manners and common sense, gym-going can become a pleasant, safe, and healthy experience for everyone.

The Lazy ... and Dangerous

One of the most common gaffes people make at the gym is failing to put equipment back in its proper place.

"Some people just leave dumbbells on the floor, which is totally dumb," Fichera says. "It is inconvenient for someone who may need that particular weight afterwards, and it could hurt other members who, while looking at themselves in the mirror, back up and don't see it on the floor."

The rule also applies to clients using free weights. Besides leaving them on the floor, some lifters apparently don't return them to their proper number slots (i.e., the 10-pound weight in the "10" spot, the 20-pounder in the "20" spot, etc.) Some people carry weights to different parts of the gym and leave them there. This obviously inconveniences others who may have to do some searching to complete their exercise.

It is also important to secure the collars on barbells. Loose plates can slide off, bounce on the ground, and hurt someone. Such common-sense rules fall under the heading of "Use equipment properly" and "Follow instructions," which should be a no-brainer, but some people still surprisingly act foolish.

The Grunters

Then there are people who scream or grunt loudly during their set. Some even drop their weights on the ground, making a big thump. These noisemakers peeve David Reyes, 33, who takes his workout routine seriously.

"Let's say that I'm bench-pressing," says Reyes. "I'm doing a heavy set and am focused on lifting with the proper form, and on my way up [with the barbell], I hear "BOOM! BOOM!"... There goes my concentration, and without it, I could end up with 300 pounds on my neck."

Reyes himself feels the need to release energy when he lifts, but he does what he calls a "muted grunt" to be considerate of other members. For people who think they need the extra boost while lifting, Fichera suggests a loud breath instead. He says a forceful exhalation should provide the same benefits as a noisy grunt.

Heavy-lifters may want to ask people to spot them while doing a set. While this may seem like an inconvenience, Warpeha says most lifters won't have a problem looking out for you, knowing that they might also need the help one day. If you can't handle a certain weight, it's best not to use it, for your safety and for others around you.

The Yakkers

Talking to others while performing a weight set could be hazardous to your health because it distracts from following proper technique, says Fichera. "Even if you've been going to the gym for a long time, it's still important to focus on your muscle contractions, or you could really hurt yourself."

Plus, people who stand idle and simply hang out with one another on the workout floor can ruin a positive, serious workout atmosphere.

Albert Valencia, a Los Angeles consultant, likes it when people are more like him at the gym. He works out at least four times a week, and tries to be out of the gym in an hour and 15 minutes. He says people who socialize sometimes upset him because they tend to not pay attention and hog equipment, making his workout inefficient.

Another disturbing behavior at the gym has to do with something that seems to irk people everywhere -- hearing people talk on their cell phones.

"Nobody needs to hear your conversation," says Re Perez, 31, who has not only experience as a club member, but as staff at an upscale Manhattan gym. He says it's one thing to receive quick calls to get information, but it's another matter to babble away, looking pretentious.

If you must yak, take your chatter outside the workout area. Some gyms have dedicated places for socializing, such as cafes and lobbies.

The Intruders

It also annoys Valencia when people disturb him during a set when they ask questions like if he's going to be finished with the machine soon.

In this case, Fichera says it's proper etiquette to let others use equipment while you're resting between sets. It may not be ideal, but the same courtesy could come in handy next time you're in a hurry.

If you're really in a rush and can't wait for someone to finish, Warpeha recommends looking for alternatives. "More than one machine can work out a particular muscle," he says. "If all else fails, use free weights."

Fitness centers usually have trained personnel on the floor who can guide you with appropriate exercises. For a simple question or two, there is usually no charge.

The Soakers

Some people may feel good about sweating up a storm at the gym, but remember to clean up after yourself. Warpeha says he's heard of customers catching colds and getting rashes from peers who don't bother to wipe perspiration from equipment. He's also seen people leave their stinky clothes in the locker room, thereby polluting the air.

Remember that the locker room is not your personal private space. This means other people may not appreciate it if you spread your stuff all over the benches, leave your shaven hair in the sink, put towels on the floor, and forget to flush the toilet.

Bottom line is that proper fitness etiquette may not differ so much from practicing good manners in the outside world. The only difference is that at the gym, you may be able to get away with wearing skimpy clothing without even a second glance.

 

MrChad

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It's amazing that these guidelines need to be pointed out to some folks. Good list, though.
 

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Originally posted by: K1052
What is this "gym" you speak of?

It's where guys like me get built so we can scare stick boys like you. :p

 

BooGiMaN

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where is the section on dress code?
there needs to be a dress code!

and a section on routinely washing said clothes and sweat towels!!
 

Amused

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Originally posted by: MrChad
It's amazing that these guidelines need to be pointed out to some folks. Good list, though.

I disagree with the "The Intruders" section, though.

It's perfectly fine to ask to "work in" on a piece of equipment in a crowded gym. It is NOT fine to rest between sets on a piece of equipment and deny others the chance to use it while you rest,
 

Xyclone

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The grunters are the most annoying. I would be doing some reps and all of a sudden I hear GRRAARGGHH!!! KIIIAAAAA!!!!! GGHRROAOAHH!! Annoying as fack.
 

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If you aren't making noise you aren't working out hard enough. And how are you supposed to do any sort of olympic lifts without dropping weights? It's impossible. That sounds like a boring gym. I do agree with putting weights away, and not talking like women.

"If all else fails, use free weights."

Ok, so it is a boring gym.
 

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Originally posted by: PaulNEPats
Build a home gym and don't worry about any of that, FTW

It can be nice but I have a few problems.

a. I like the motivation a gym offers. Seeing the fatties and the people with perfect bodies gives me motvation. Also, there is no easy quitting in a gym or being bugged by the SO and distracted.

b. I need a spotter. And no, a Smith Machine or safety bench are not viable options for a heavy lifter.

c. Space. I don't have the space for the kind of equipment I would need.

d. Initial investment. Who wants to spend so much money all up front?

 

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Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: K1052
What is this "gym" you speak of?

It's where guys like me get built so we can scare stick boys like you. :p

I'm sure I'll be seeing the inside of one when my metabolism starts to show signs of giving out. Getting old is gonna suck.



 

Sluggo

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Originally posted by: MrChad
It's amazing that these guidelines need to be pointed out to some folks. Good list, though.

Yep, most of it sounds like common courtesy, but it seems that is as difficult to find as a healthy dodo bird.
 

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i always mind my manners in the gym
forgot a towel one time but wasnt doing cardio that day
lucky for everyone else hehe
 

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Originally posted by: Sukhoi
If you aren't making noise you aren't working out hard enough. And how are you supposed to do any sort of olympic lifts without dropping weights? It's impossible. That sounds like a boring gym. I do agree with putting weights away, and not talking like women.

"If all else fails, use free weights."

Ok, so it is a boring gym.

The vast majority of people I see dropping weights are NOT powerlifting. I see them tossing down low lb dumbells (which can break). I also see them dropping curl bars.

The ONLY acceptable time to drop a weight is the area MADE to do so, the power lifting platform.

BTW, I bench for reps with 125lb dumbells, and have NEVER dropped them.
 

Amused

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Originally posted by: K1052
Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: K1052
What is this "gym" you speak of?

It's where guys like me get built so we can scare stick boys like you. :p

I'm sure I'll be seeing the inside of one when my metabolism starts to show signs of giving out. Getting old is gonna suck.

Naw, it's been great. My metabolism slowing meant I could pack on insane amounts of muscle.

The vision going and random minor aches are the only real complaints I have... so far.
 

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The gym I use has signs everywhere telling folks to put their equipment back where it belongs. Generally, the people who ignore them are either the ones who only work out once in a blue moon, or the high schoolers.

I somewhat disagree about what the author says about the "grunters". I would say everyone has been around lifters who grunt to excess, but there are times when it is almost an involuntary action (like after you've done a lot of deadlifts and you are trying to squeeze out just a few more, in spite of the pain).
 

Amused

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Originally posted by: NuclearNed
The gym I use has signs everywhere telling folks to put their equipment back where it belongs. Generally, the people who ignore them are either the ones who only work out once in a blue moon, or the high schoolers.

I somewhat disagree about what the author says about the "grunters". I would say everyone has been around lifters who grunt to excess, but there are times when it is almost an involuntary action (like after you've done a lot of deadlifts and you are trying to squeeze out just a few more, in spite of the pain).

Quiet grunting is one thing, grunting like a moose in heat is another. People who literally scream need to be shot.
 

Xyclone

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Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: K1052
Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: K1052
What is this "gym" you speak of?

It's where guys like me get built so we can scare stick boys like you. :p

I'm sure I'll be seeing the inside of one when my metabolism starts to show signs of giving out. Getting old is gonna suck.

Naw, it's been great. My metabolism slowing meant I could pack on insane amounts of muscle.

The vision going and random minor aches are the only real complaints I have... so far.

Exercise reaps its benefits. :thumbsup:
 

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But they didn't provide any tips on towel etiquette? How about no shaving at the sink in the locker room without clothes? How about not walking around naked any longer than is absolutely necessary?

Nothing like walking into a locker room and seeing some guy strutting around with his sausage hanging out....

Meh.
 

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Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: Sukhoi
If you aren't making noise you aren't working out hard enough. And how are you supposed to do any sort of olympic lifts without dropping weights? It's impossible. That sounds like a boring gym. I do agree with putting weights away, and not talking like women.

"If all else fails, use free weights."

Ok, so it is a boring gym.

The vast majority of people I see dropping weights are NOT powerlifting. I see them tossing down low lb dumbells (which can break). I also see them dropping curl bars.

The ONLY acceptable time to drop a weight is the area MADE to do so, the power lifting platform.

BTW, I bench for reps with 125lb dumbells, and have NEVER dropped them.

Yeah it's stupid if you're dropping light DBs or straight bars. But you can't always avoid it. I have bad rotator cuffs, especially on the left side. If I'm doing decline DB press and don't have access to two boxes, I pretty much have to drop them when I'm done with my set. If I tried to set them down I'd tear up my shoulders.
 

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Originally posted by: altonb1
But they didn't provide any tips on towel etiquette? How about no shaving at the sink in the locker room without clothes? How about not walking around naked any longer than is absolutely necessary?

Nothing like walking into a locker room and seeing some guy strutting around with his sausage hanging out....

Meh.

It's all in there, I think the sausage one is "noone wants you to spread your stuff all over the bench." :p
 

edro

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I love the "Grunters" who do like 800lbs+ on the leg press machines and have a 2-3inch range of motion.

Yeah, that range is really helpin' you out there buddy. Your attention seeking grunts make you look real cool too.
 

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Originally posted by: edro
I love the "Grunters" who do like 800lbs+ on the leg press machines and have a 2-3inch range of motion.

Yeah, that range is really helpin' you out there buddy. Your attention seeking grunts make you look real cool too.

And the people that do 45º squats.
 

Amused

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Originally posted by: Sukhoi
Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: Sukhoi
If you aren't making noise you aren't working out hard enough. And how are you supposed to do any sort of olympic lifts without dropping weights? It's impossible. That sounds like a boring gym. I do agree with putting weights away, and not talking like women.

"If all else fails, use free weights."

Ok, so it is a boring gym.

The vast majority of people I see dropping weights are NOT powerlifting. I see them tossing down low lb dumbells (which can break). I also see them dropping curl bars.

The ONLY acceptable time to drop a weight is the area MADE to do so, the power lifting platform.

BTW, I bench for reps with 125lb dumbells, and have NEVER dropped them.

Yeah it's stupid if you're dropping light DBs or straight bars. But you can't always avoid it. I have bad rotator cuffs, especially on the left side. If I'm doing decline DB press and don't have access to two boxes, I pretty much have to drop them when I'm done with my set. If I tried to set them down I'd tear up my shoulders.

Don't set them down. I dismount dumbbells while benching by laying them on my torso and sitting up so the ends rest on my thighs. I then stand, turn and either rack them, or lay them on the bench for my next set.

For declines I rest them on my chest and have a spotter take them off.

Most dumbells break quite easily if repeatedly dropped.
 

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Good list, one thing that I would add: when you rack your weights, the lip should face outwards, the reasoning is two-fold: Primarily, the lip serves as a grip for removing the weight from the rack, if the lip is facing inwards you have nothing to grab onto, and trying to shove your fingers in between a stack of weights can lead to some smashed up fingers. Secondarily, the weight is labeled on the lip side, so people can easily see how much weight they are grabbing. A lot of people seem to think that because they lift with the lip facing inwards they should rack the weights the same way, which just isn't true.