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Middle aged women on TV posing as "sexy."

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Originally posted by: fisher
Originally posted by: DragonMasterAlex
Originally posted by: Ketteringo
They're in their sexual primes?

Hell yes, they are 🙂 Anyone who says a younger girl is more sexable than an older woman (say 30's to late 40's) is smoking crack. Young girls, yes, often have sexier figures, but you'll never find an 18 year old who can touch your body the way a woman in her 30's and up can. NEVER.

Jason

however there is something to be said for boobs that stay in place outside of a bra instead of taking the express train to the floor. and no i'm not a virgin, no i'm not under 30 (i hate saying that, ugh) and yes i find older women attractive, but not for their "i can be 20 again with enough surgery and makeup sexiness" wannabe bs.

oh and this thread kicks ass.

i'm guessing most of the guys who find the women on DH or sex in the city attractive remember the stars when they were younger and were really sexy, not how they are now. i've seen kim cattrell outside of a tv show (doing an interview) and wow, she was not at all attractive. she looked nothing like she does on the show (big surprise there). when i think of teri hatcher i mostly remember when she was younger and sexy as hell, not whatever she might be today. however i'm guessing getting a look at her naked and without all the tv pampering i'd be ditching my memories for reality really quick.

edit: not that i'm saying i'd kick her out of bed...

Well, I'll say this much: My last girlfriend was 44 and my current is about to turn 26. For a surprise twist, though, the 44 year old had *much* nicer breasts that were 100% natural, and believe me when I say, they stayed *exactly* where they belonged, bra or not. Mind you, this was a woman who took *immaculate* care of her health and body, so it's not too surprising. Point is just that younger != always sexier.

Jason
 
Originally posted by: DragonMasterAlex
Originally posted by: fisher
Originally posted by: DragonMasterAlex
Originally posted by: Ketteringo
They're in their sexual primes?

Hell yes, they are 🙂 Anyone who says a younger girl is more sexable than an older woman (say 30's to late 40's) is smoking crack. Young girls, yes, often have sexier figures, but you'll never find an 18 year old who can touch your body the way a woman in her 30's and up can. NEVER.

Jason

however there is something to be said for boobs that stay in place outside of a bra instead of taking the express train to the floor. and no i'm not a virgin, no i'm not under 30 (i hate saying that, ugh) and yes i find older women attractive, but not for their "i can be 20 again with enough surgery and makeup sexiness" wannabe bs.

oh and this thread kicks ass.

i'm guessing most of the guys who find the women on DH or sex in the city attractive remember the stars when they were younger and were really sexy, not how they are now. i've seen kim cattrell outside of a tv show (doing an interview) and wow, she was not at all attractive. she looked nothing like she does on the show (big surprise there). when i think of teri hatcher i mostly remember when she was younger and sexy as hell, not whatever she might be today. however i'm guessing getting a look at her naked and without all the tv pampering i'd be ditching my memories for reality really quick.

edit: not that i'm saying i'd kick her out of bed...

Well, I'll say this much: My last girlfriend was 44 and my current is about to turn 26. For a surprise twist, though, the 44 year old had *much* nicer breasts that were 100% natural, and believe me when I say, they stayed *exactly* where they belonged, bra or not. Mind you, this was a woman who took *immaculate* care of her health and body, so it's not too surprising. Point is just that younger != always sexier.

Jason

I'll guarantee you the 44 y.o. was much more ... experimental. If it wasn't something you'd never get a 20 y.o. to do, it was probably something new to you. It must be an unwritten law of nature that the more mature a female gets, the more of a freak they become. I'm months away from 30, and the wife is starting to come up with crazy new bedroom antics. I swear she must have found my pr0n stash and said, "Hmm, that looks neat. I'll try it!"
 
Originally posted by: kogase
Originally posted by: Proletariat
Originally posted by: cKGunslinger
I'd much rather watch shows with "older" sexualized women, than I would one with a bunch of ditzy 18-24 year olds. Hell, watching girls that young and immature would be almost like watching some sick child porn or Girls Gone Wild "Center for the Mentally Disabled" Edition.

No, you can stick with the majority of young girls, because as selfish, immature, and ignorant as most of them are, they still are your superiors. You can leave the attractive, sexy, 30+ women to the rest of who aren't stuck in remedial puberty. I think it works out well for all parties involved. :thumbsup:

The young ones are tighter though :Q

The younger ones use teeth though.

This is true. The younger ones *rarely* know how to give a good BJ, and many of them do it with all the enthusiasm of a five year old who's been told to clean up the dog poop in the back yard. An older woman, on the other hand, *delves* into the experience, enraptures herself around and upon your equipment and touches you as only an experienced and sexually awakened woman can.

Jason
 
Originally posted by: Aquila76
Originally posted by: DragonMasterAlex
Originally posted by: fisher
Originally posted by: DragonMasterAlex
Originally posted by: Ketteringo
They're in their sexual primes?

Hell yes, they are 🙂 Anyone who says a younger girl is more sexable than an older woman (say 30's to late 40's) is smoking crack. Young girls, yes, often have sexier figures, but you'll never find an 18 year old who can touch your body the way a woman in her 30's and up can. NEVER.

Jason

however there is something to be said for boobs that stay in place outside of a bra instead of taking the express train to the floor. and no i'm not a virgin, no i'm not under 30 (i hate saying that, ugh) and yes i find older women attractive, but not for their "i can be 20 again with enough surgery and makeup sexiness" wannabe bs.

oh and this thread kicks ass.

i'm guessing most of the guys who find the women on DH or sex in the city attractive remember the stars when they were younger and were really sexy, not how they are now. i've seen kim cattrell outside of a tv show (doing an interview) and wow, she was not at all attractive. she looked nothing like she does on the show (big surprise there). when i think of teri hatcher i mostly remember when she was younger and sexy as hell, not whatever she might be today. however i'm guessing getting a look at her naked and without all the tv pampering i'd be ditching my memories for reality really quick.

edit: not that i'm saying i'd kick her out of bed...

Well, I'll say this much: My last girlfriend was 44 and my current is about to turn 26. For a surprise twist, though, the 44 year old had *much* nicer breasts that were 100% natural, and believe me when I say, they stayed *exactly* where they belonged, bra or not. Mind you, this was a woman who took *immaculate* care of her health and body, so it's not too surprising. Point is just that younger != always sexier.

Jason

I'll guarantee you the 44 y.o. was much more ... experimental. If it wasn't something you'd never get a 20 y.o. to do, it was probably something new to you. It must be an unwritten law of nature that the more mature a female gets, the more of a freak they become. I'm months away from 30, and the wife is starting to come up with crazy new bedroom antics. I swear she must have found my pr0n stash and said, "Hmm, that looks neat. I'll try it!"

LOL, that's awesome. My current GF is 25, and I just turned 30 in February, and although she's bisexual(ish) she's also *really* skittish about things like porn, tends to get butt-hurt (although she's *totally* into the lesbo porn...go figure!). It's pretty odd, all in all, but the disappointing bit is that her enthusiasm for the...effluvia of the male orgasm is pretty much nil, whereas the 44 year old was a completely insatiable *devourer*.

Jason
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: TheAdvocate
I'd agree with the OP if we were just discussing DH & SitC, because, aside from Eva... yech. I can't watch either of those shows because those women turn my stomach (the young brunette on SitC is okay)

But Marissa Tomei...

And Diane Lane=wow. Diane Lane is hotter than 99% of the actresses 20 years younger than her. She singlehandedly destroys your argument.

Have you seen any of these women in real life without makeup? No? Then you've never seen what they really look like. Have you seen them naked in real life? If you did, you would probably be most unimpressed.
Yeah right like you've ever seen any woman besides your mother naked.

Gatsby has seen plently of skin.

You however, have not seen untarnished youthful skin in decades and you're bitter about it.


Bitter ? no he's too happy being married to a really nice blonde gal 😀
 
Man, I'm 24 and I would bang every last one of the chicks on Desperate Housewives or Sex and the City.

*Believe* me, women in their 30s are in their sexual prime. When they're good they're GOOD.
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
A 40 year old trying to be sexy is just disturbing.

Yet a good looking, confident, sexual 40 year old woman when you're 19 or 20 is quite an education, let me tell you 😉

 
Originally posted by: CVSiN
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Does anyone know what's with this new wave of overly sexualized middle aged women on television? (Desparate Housewives, Sex In The City, etc)

Gatsby cannot stand it.

Women 10 years my senior are making Gatsby sick....sick...sick all over.

You see them on television, but please realize, they are simply doused in make up and other cosmetic equipment. They do not look that good in real life.

I pull up Amazon.com (Books), and I see these books written by psuedo-celebrities such as Kim Cattrall. 200 years prior, a woman that age would be near grandparent age.

What happened to the Golden Girl days when old women wore bright colored sweatsuits and entertained audiences by making sarcastic quips? Who decided to turn up the sexualization by about 1000%?

Oh please, when will the madness end?

And please, no "older women are best because they have experience" posts. If that's true, I want to see you say that about Bea Arthur, and then we'll talk. If you're over 30, it becomes less about "sexy" and more about "classy." A 40 year old trying to be sexy is just disturbing.


Hmm 40 is NOT old btw... and alot of us are around that age.. and I sure as hell think Cathrine Zeta Jones and Demi Moore are still super hot and guess what they are both in thier 40s... and Kristen Davis from Sex in the city is smoking hot... and shes near 40 as well.

when you actually grow up a bit your views will change.. i personally find most of the younger actresses on TV and movies these days unappealling.. gone are the Christina Applegates and Nikki Cox's from my 20s TV shows now we are stuck with dumb as rocks paris hilton wannabes...

you do realize that a VERY large portion of the TV viewing audience is 36-80 which makes 40 yeal old women just fine as a target group..

The tv viewing audience is everyone. Every damn person. only the idiots watch the retarded shows where the entire tv show is based on sex. they used to call those.... pornos. yeah. except everyone was naked. so therefore, if youre going to have a show about sex, then everyone should be naked. they got that whole thing down many years ago. now were taking 2 steps backwards. ok include the sex, but not the nudity. ok... so its based on sex, without seeing the sex... that makes sense.... I personally think those shows are so retarded its unbelievable. Btw.. i hate reality tv too.
oh yeah, and isnt it great when your 5 year old niece sees the commercial on tbs for sex and the city while your watching jurassic park and then she says "whats sex?" and everyone wonders why 8th grade kids are getting pregnant. STUPID!
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Since I was born with natural good looks, thick hair, and am on the track to financial success, and take great care of my self by not drinking, smoking, doing drugs, or gaining unneeded weight, I have a longer shelf life and I will not lower my standards as I get older.


How ironic. You just described most of the women you say sicken you, yet you aspire to be just like them. So what's it going to be? Will younger women still find you attractive as many younger men find these women, or will your self-perceived sexiness just be a joke to younger women as you find these women's to be? You can't have it both ways without having your hypocrisy or flawed logic show through.
 
Originally posted by: Kaervak
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
Originally posted by: Perknose
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Women 10 years my senior are making Gatsby sick....sick...sick all over.
Women 10 years your senior are still in high school, Billy.


:laugh:

Then go date girls your own age. Leave experience, sexiness, to others that would appreciate it.

Hey, not all of us in our mid twenties think older women are disgusting.


I quite agree... 🙂
 
Originally posted by: fisher
Originally posted by: DragonMasterAlex
Originally posted by: Ketteringo
They're in their sexual primes?

Hell yes, they are 🙂 Anyone who says a younger girl is more sexable than an older woman (say 30's to late 40's) is smoking crack. Young girls, yes, often have sexier figures, but you'll never find an 18 year old who can touch your body the way a woman in her 30's and up can. NEVER.

Jason

however there is something to be said for boobs that stay in place outside of a bra instead of taking the express train to the floor. and no i'm not a virgin, no i'm not under 30 (i hate saying that, ugh) and yes i find older women attractive, but not for their "i can be 20 again with enough surgery and makeup sexiness" wannabe bs.

oh and this thread kicks ass.

i'm guessing most of the guys who find the women on DH or sex in the city attractive remember the stars when they were younger and were really sexy, not how they are now. i've seen kim cattrell outside of a tv show (doing an interview) and wow, she was not at all attractive. she looked nothing like she does on the show (big surprise there). when i think of teri hatcher i mostly remember when she was younger and sexy as hell, not whatever she might be today. however i'm guessing getting a look at her naked and without all the tv pampering i'd be ditching my memories for reality really quick.

edit: not that i'm saying i'd kick her out of bed...

If you're over 30 and you think that women over 30 are hot, I'm not sure how much that really means. I don't think it really counts for anything.

Come on guys... don't you remember being young? When you were 12, you through that 12-year-old girls were pretty good-looking, yeah? When you were 15, 15-year-olds looked good. I think people are naturally attracted to people their own age, for the most part.

Now, a lot of 40-year-old guys like 20-year-olds, but it's not normal. I'm 22 and (if I was single) wouldn't think about going with a girl under 18 or over, say, 27.
 
Originally posted by: kevinthenerd
[QCome on guys... don't you remember being young?

Yeah, like it was yesterday (maybe it was). I didn't like near-middle-aged and middle-aged women until I was 27 and my best friend introduced me to a friend of his that was 42. Sexiness is difficult to define for me, but she was extremely sexy. Not extremely beautiful but beautiful, nonetheless. I could not help but find her desirable, luscious, and delicious. I've felt like that before but only for women closer to my own age. After that, I started opening my eyes more to women around me in general and discovered that there were LOTS of desirable women around me everyday. Almost too many to choose from. Don't close yourself off dude. You may miss out.

 
Meh, it all depends. Sophia Loren was still a hottie in the GOM movies and she was what, late 50's early 60's? I'd rather be with a classy classic beauty like Loren than some younger skank like Lindsey Lohan.
 
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